serious orgasm question-

[Pamela]

Not only do you have to be comfortable with the guy your with
you have to be very comfortable with yourself.

I think it's normal for you at this time.
Maybe your trying to hard.


Give yourself some time and get more in tune to your body.

You will have to just let go.

 

[Cindy99]

perhaps you should be with a woman, that might make you more comfortable and she would have a better idea re: how to press the right buttons, so to speak...

 

[firewitch]

I had the same problem when i was young. Then I was with a new guy for the first time, and told him not to worry about me because I never come.........

hehehhehhehhee..........boy did he prove me wrong! Bless his heart, he knew what I wanted more than I did, and I never had anyone like him again. But I did later learn how to communicate and guide my lover to do what would help me get off, get a guy who is really interested in pleasing you and learning how to do so.

 

[barbell265]

Here's the answer you girls have been looking for...

Alright the remedy for this problem is simple; come see me and..ohh..wait a sec Wife would not approve...ok for real.

Have your boyfriend, husband, what ever give you a nice back rub, warming the lotion in his hands first, from your temples to the tips of your toes, spending a little extra time arround the base of the neck, shoulders near the axillary area,(armpits), lower back, behinde the knees bottoms of the feet and the more common erogenous zones; nipples/breast, tummy, hips especially the inner thighs, never touching, but brushing ever so close to the labia. Then return the favor with a quick chest rub for him, sliding you body up and down and grinding yourself against his member, sliding up and down without insertion. By now if your not dripping wet, your dead. If your not dead then have him go down on you, spread your legs wide and bring your feet together so your legs form a sort of diamond. Have him work his hands under your shins and place his hands on your inner thighs. This position allows for clitoral, vaginal and anal stimulation with toung and fingers. About 10-15 min of good direct clitoral stimulation with vaginal probing and anal rubbing alternating of course unless you have two toungs and three hands and you should have an earth shattering orgasam! Now pull him up on or mount him like he's your stallion and SLOWLY climax together. I do this for my wife every time we have sex,(not the back rub every time), and she has at least 3-7 orgasams, every time! Her all time record is 12 orgasams in one session of lovemaking.

If this does not give you at least one to two orgasams your near death and should hang it up anyway, or cum see me and I will show you..Uhhh.. no.. Wife would not approve...ok so your in need of a new lover then!!