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hello...
this is my first post on this board... but i have researched and i am curious if anyone here might have some experience or knowledge that they could share with me...
here's some background info: i am 22, female and NEVER had a orgasm... i think i have come close but never happened... i went to the doctor and had my test levels and dhea checked... i was WAY below normal- like almost nonexistent!!!! so the doctor put me on testosterone cyp- 50mg eow... i have been taking it a month now.. and i feel better, more energy, alot more hornier that i have ever been but still no orgasm... i think i have come the closest i ever have the other day but it never happened... i am curious if it is just me? or is it jsut impossible? any info would be much appreciated!!!!!!!!!!;)
 
i'm 25 and i VERY SELDOM have a real orgasm without toys. i don't even know if i've had enough to know the difference (a real one, vs. one i've faked. i'm so convincing i think i fool myself). i'd be curious to see what some of the other ladies have to say, i know what the guys will say ha ha. toys do help though, and i don't mean backscratchers....
 
Not even by yourself? I have a friend who cant have orgasm during sex without toys, but she can by herself. Do you have some negative sexual history that might be blocking you psychologically? If so, maybe you need a therapist instead of hormones.
 
get yourself a porno, lock your doors and experiment by yourself til you get the desired result. most of the time, direct clitoral stimulation is needed, at least in the beginning, thats how it was for me. you need to know yourself well before you can experience it with someone else. i never had one until i could get myself off.
 
TEXgrl said:
get yourself a porno, lock your doors and experiment by yourself til you get the desired result. most of the time, direct clitoral stimulation is needed, at least in the beginning, thats how it was for me. you need to know yourself well before you can experience it with someone else. i never had one until i could get myself off.
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Damn, I don't think it was meant to be this hard, was it? A good man should be able to make that pussy drip and his girl cum.
 
ttlpkg said:


Damn, I don't think it was meant to be this hard, was it? A good man should be able to make that pussy drip and his girl cum.
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i think you need to know what YOU like before anyone else can help you out with it, i mean, i wouldn't ask you if i like chocolate ice cream, i'd try it out for myself and see if i did.
 
you may be overcomplicating matters

I have to disagree. I think you all are making this thing waay too complicated.

In the case of myself and my wife, I (beaming with pride) was the first guy to get her off. She never got that far by herself either. And this was 2 years before we had actual intercourse... I know... I know... everyone's going to be like "how in the hell did you wait that long?" Dunno - we certainly were the exception, not the rule.

It's pretty simple.

1) Be completely comfortable with each other and yes, you do have to be comfortable with yourself/by yourself before you can add someone else to the picture.

2) Open communication: Yes! Right there! or no you're a little low... etc...

3) Don't get frustrated and stick with what works until you really get to know your bodies... then move on to other things so it never gets stale.
 
bottom line IMO....you're not going to have the big O unless you're comfortable with the guy. i can't tell you how many women have told me this after finally having their first O with me. not tooting my own horn, but that's the way it is. find a guy that makes you feel good about yourself....then you're on your way.
 
Have you tried anything? If not why not experiment on your own. buy some toys or porn or whatever you thing might help you. Dont be afraid to try something new. (clitoral vibrators are always fun;) .)
Also dont be afraid to tell your partner then what you like. It makes things more intimate and maybe you can use your toys together.
 
thanks for all the advice!!!
i got some new porn, a new toy, and a sexy guy... so we'll see how this goes... also got me a showerhead yesterday!!!!
 
ST0RM SHADOW said:
Without even knowing I knew Frackal was here and was going to say that hahahahahaha damn that guy's funny.

THE STORM SHADOW
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LMAO
 
Not only do you have to be comfortable with the guy your with
you have to be very comfortable with yourself.

I think it's normal for you at this time.
Maybe your trying to hard.


Give yourself some time and get more in tune to your body.

You will have to just let go.
 
perhaps you should be with a woman, that might make you more comfortable and she would have a better idea re: how to press the right buttons, so to speak...
 
I had the same problem when i was young. Then I was with a new guy for the first time, and told him not to worry about me because I never come.........

hehehhehhehhee..........boy did he prove me wrong! Bless his heart, he knew what I wanted more than I did, and I never had anyone like him again. But I did later learn how to communicate and guide my lover to do what would help me get off, get a guy who is really interested in pleasing you and learning how to do so.
 
Here's the answer you girls have been looking for...

Alright the remedy for this problem is simple; come see me and..ohh..wait a sec Wife would not approve...ok for real.

Have your boyfriend, husband, what ever give you a nice back rub, warming the lotion in his hands first, from your temples to the tips of your toes, spending a little extra time arround the base of the neck, shoulders near the axillary area,(armpits), lower back, behinde the knees bottoms of the feet and the more common erogenous zones; nipples/breast, tummy, hips especially the inner thighs, never touching, but brushing ever so close to the labia. Then return the favor with a quick chest rub for him, sliding you body up and down and grinding yourself against his member, sliding up and down without insertion. By now if your not dripping wet, your dead. If your not dead then have him go down on you, spread your legs wide and bring your feet together so your legs form a sort of diamond. Have him work his hands under your shins and place his hands on your inner thighs. This position allows for clitoral, vaginal and anal stimulation with toung and fingers. About 10-15 min of good direct clitoral stimulation with vaginal probing and anal rubbing alternating of course unless you have two toungs and three hands and you should have an earth shattering orgasam! Now pull him up on or mount him like he's your stallion and SLOWLY climax together. I do this for my wife every time we have sex,(not the back rub every time), and she has at least 3-7 orgasams, every time! Her all time record is 12 orgasams in one session of lovemaking.

If this does not give you at least one to two orgasams your near death and should hang it up anyway, or cum see me and I will show you..Uhhh.. no.. Wife would not approve...ok so your in need of a new lover then!! :D
 
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