serious orgasm question-

[TEXgrl]

get yourself a porno, lock your doors and experiment by yourself til you get the desired result. most of the time, direct clitoral stimulation is needed, at least in the beginning, thats how it was for me. you need to know yourself well before you can experience it with someone else. i never had one until i could get myself off.

 

[Longhorn85]

get yourself a porno, lock your doors and experiment by yourself til you get the desired result. most of the time, direct clitoral stimulation is needed, at least in the beginning, thats how it was for me. you need to know yourself well before you can experience it with someone else. i never had one until i could get myself off.

Damn, I don't think it was meant to be this hard, was it? A good man should be able to make that pussy drip and his girl cum.

 

[TEXgrl]

Damn, I don't think it was meant to be this hard, was it? A good man should be able to make that pussy drip and his girl cum.

i think you need to know what YOU like before anyone else can help you out with it, i mean, i wouldn't ask you if i like chocolate ice cream, i'd try it out for myself and see if i did.

 

[epinephrine munky]

you may be overcomplicating matters

I have to disagree. I think you all are making this thing waay too complicated.

In the case of myself and my wife, I (beaming with pride) was the first guy to get her off. She never got that far by herself either. And this was 2 years before we had actual intercourse... I know... I know... everyone's going to be like "how in the hell did you wait that long?" Dunno - we certainly were the exception, not the rule.

It's pretty simple.

1) Be completely comfortable with each other and yes, you do have to be comfortable with yourself/by yourself before you can add someone else to the picture.

2) Open communication: Yes! Right there! or no you're a little low... etc...

3) Don't get frustrated and stick with what works until you really get to know your bodies... then move on to other things so it never gets stale.

 

[kamaboko]

bottom line IMO....you're not going to have the big O unless you're comfortable with the guy. i can't tell you how many women have told me this after finally having their first O with me. not tooting my own horn, but that's the way it is. find a guy that makes you feel good about yourself....then you're on your way.

 

[ATrollFromTheFatBoard]

Three small words of advice:

The Shower Massager.

This book may be a good resource for some.

_Becoming Orgasmic_
Julia R. Heiman, Ph.D, and Joseph Lopiccolo, Ph.D.

 

[jbauer]

Have you tried anything? If not why not experiment on your own. buy some toys or porn or whatever you thing might help you. Dont be afraid to try something new. (clitoral vibrators are always fun .)
Also dont be afraid to tell your partner then what you like. It makes things more intimate and maybe you can use your toys together.

 

[oicu812 - chargeback]

thanks for all the advice!!!
i got some new porn, a new toy, and a sexy guy... so we'll see how this goes... also got me a showerhead yesterday!!!!

 

[ATrollFromTheFatBoard]

Please let us know how you are doing.

Orgasm is too good to miss!!

Plus the guys all have it easy; it's no fair for us to miss out.

 

[Frackal]

Without even knowing I knew Frackal was here and was going to say that hahahahahaha damn that guy's funny.

THE STORM SHADOW

LMAO