Puss is puss???

[MaGilicuti]

Seriously, I would give up making love if I could just be treated with kindness, friendship and respect by one special man.....I would NEVER stray.

If you are true to your word then you are one of the few women out there that believe that. Otherwise I'm calling a big fat bullshit on that one. So ugly little piece of crap loves you and all that you are leaving that for a "real" man.

We are all a bit superficial I believe but that's just how we all are i guess. We need that attraction to be there to be in a real relationship. A relationship is about being happy and its pointless if your spouse is just unattractive to you.

But back to the topic, puss is still puss damn it. And if its willing to party let's go.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Your comments are justified MacGilicutti, but if you could have seen some of the fellas that I had dated in the past....you would not have made it. I have dated men that were shorter than me (I'm really only 5' 3 1/2"), BUTT UGLY, never seen the inside of a gym, pilsbury doughboy types, guys with arms that were skinnier than mine (No, I do NOT have 17 inch arms - LOL).

Like I said before, would it be nice to find a man with chiseled features, with the body of a god, a good conversationalist, smart, funny makes GOOOOOOOOD MONEY, would support me no matter WHAT I wanted to do as long as it made me happy, and DAYMMMNED good in the sack?! HELL YES!!!! But a man need not have the first two in order for me to consider dating him. You can think what you like, but the honest truth (for me anyways) if a man has A LOT to offer me as far as the rest of the requirements go......then in my eyes THERE IS NO OTHER MAN - PERIOD.

And yes, I would even give up sex if I could have him treat me the way that I deserve to be treatd. How can I make such a statement? I was with the same man for 13 years - was faithful till my head hit the ground. Do you honestly believe that we were swinging from the chandeliers morning, noon, and nite? There were sometime that our relationship was soooooo strained that we did not doink for 6 - 8 mos at a clip!....believe it or not, the thought to stray NEVER entered my mind. I would not want someone to treat me that way, so I would not treat THEM like that.

Sex is very important, but it ain't everything.

 

[MaGilicuti]

Your comments are justified MacGilicutti, but if you could have seen some of the fellas that I had dated in the past....you would not have made it. I have dated men that were shorter than me (I'm really only 5' 3 1/2"), BUTT UGLY, never seen the inside of a gym, pilsbury doughboy types, guys with arms that were skinnier than mine (No, I do NOT have 17 inch arms - LOL).

Like I said before, would it be nice to find a man with chiseled features, with the body of a god, a good conversationalist, smart, funny makes GOOOOOOOOD MONEY, would support me no matter WHAT I wanted to do as long as it made me happy, and DAYMMMNED good in the sack?! HELL YES!!!! But a man need not have the first two in order for me to consider dating him. You can think what you like, but the honest truth (for me anyways) if a man has A LOT to offer me as far as the rest of the requirements go......then in my eyes THERE IS NO OTHER MAN - PERIOD.

And yes, I would even give up sex if I could have him treat me the way that I deserve to be treatd. How can I make such a statement? I was with the same man for 13 years - was faithful till my head hit the ground. Do you honestly believe that we were swinging from the chandeliers morning, noon, and nite? There were sometime that our relationship was soooooo strained that we did not doink for 6 - 8 mos at a clip!....believe it or not, the thought to stray NEVER entered my mind. I would not want someone to treat me that way, so I would not treat THEM like that.

Sex is very important, but it ain't everything.

Liar...

Well I have to admit I have to be somewhat attracted to the person to want to be in a "relationship" but personality does play a big part of course. But you were stating before that looks are practically not an issue for you. The rest of the girls aren't even backing you up. But if you really are like that then that's cool with me. I honestly think a lot of girls in their early 20s are just looking for a good time instead of the long relationship.

 

[Bikini Mod]

See you said the magic words...."a lot of girls in their early twenties" I am flattered, but I AIN'T THAT! LOL

......and even when I was in my early twenties, did I STILL date guys that the average girl would have considered "NOT all that"? Absolutely, if they made me laugh and had "a way" about them, I would ALWAYS go out to see if we could at least be friends.....THAT IS HOW EVERYBODY STARTS WITH ME - FRIENDS. If something more develops, cool. If not, then that is ok too. I would hate to think that I pissed something potentially amazing away based purely on looks.

If a guy is GORGEOUS and boring or a total ASSHOLE or just a loser in general (ie stockboy at the local A&P at the age of 24) I would not even CONSIDER giving him the time of day. If he was "eh" and a loser - we don't have to go there. If he is a man that I find to be amazing because of strength of character, kindness and compassion, ambitious and smart he could be what the average attractive female may consider "not all that" - all I would see is the beauty of his soul.

NO JOKE. I AM DEAD SERIOUS.......all he would have to do is treat me the way that I deserve and I would NEVER EVEN CONSIDER stepping out .

Amazing guys don't come along every day....and once I give my heart it is serious and committed. How else could I have lasted 13 years with a guy who stated he loved me quite often.....but treated me like I was less than the gum underneath his shoe? Was it my fault for staying so long? AAAAAABBBBBBBBSSSSSSSSOLUTELY! I can't take back the past. But I sure as hell am going to change the future.

Believe what you will Brotha Magilicutti. If you find this concept too difficult to wrap yourself around, then you just haven't met an amazing woman yet.

See, I have met a few amazing men in the past and let them get away because I did not believe that I deserved them.......the next one I meet, will NOT get away! hehehehee