I have a PA. I wanted it for years and then like a dummy waited until I got married. I say like a dummy because even the girls who think it gross are curious about what it feels like. I can also tell you that even though my wife says sometimes it's uncomfortable she cums ten times harder if I have one in. I just rock a curved barbell so it doesn't get in the way or anything. I say go for it I definitely have never regretted getting mine.