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SC4EVA

SC4EVA

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Ok.. This is a serious question/problem I am hoping you guys/girls can help me with. So me and the better half occasionally have some threesome fun and we are always very careful about it. Condoms.. birthcontrol etc etc.. So we go away for the weekend and she decides she would like to inivte this dude she has meet a few times before to party and I really didnt care.. Long story short.. at the end of the time when the guy finished we had realized that his rubber had broken. Usually we would never even let the guy finish with the rubber inside but all three of us were barely conscious. Ok.. so now the harsh dealing with reality. I am not concern about the pregnany issue. I am concerned with the std/hiv/etc problems. How long should we wait before we start getting tested? I know some things take forever to show up or cant be tested right away.. We have each neither had anythnig before and it would be beat to have it turn out that way now.. Any honest opinions suggestions would be appreciated Thanks
 
I really don't know for sure. I would have her call the Gyno and see what the time limits are on certain problems. They can give you a better guidlines than we can.....good luck
 
Wow, that whole scenario makes me sick. I feel sorry for you but serves you right.
 
Chances are you are OK. The condom breaks towards the end of lovemaking in my experience. The biggest risk would be HIV in my opinion. Frankly, it is one of the less common STD's. But for God's sake BE CAREFUL....sheesh, I've been around long enough to tell you some stories. Take care....G
 
SC4EVA said:
Ok.. This is a serious question/problem I am hoping you guys/girls can help me with. So me and the better half occasionally have some threesome fun
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when the guy finished we had realized that his rubber had broken.
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I'm not one to critisize anyone's chosen lifestyle.
Live and let live, to each his and her own and all the other cheesy sayings...etc.

So when I say this, it's with all do respect but IMHO there's more of a problem than just a busted rubber.
 
that is the mean reason why its not a good idea to let a another man stick his penis in your women, like someone else said, serves you right.
 
In known HIV exposure cases (needle sticks from an HIV positive patient, or sex with a known infected person) you can go on Post Exposure Prophylactic (PEP) therapy. This involves a course of 2-3 HIV anti-retrovirals for up to 10-12 weeks. The meds can be quite toxic and have some nasty side affects.

However, you probably don't know the HIV status of this guy. The reality is (despite what HBO specials and The View would have you believe) the rate of HIV incidence in white, non-gay, non-IV drug using individuals is very, very low. If your girl has no existing STDs then the rate of transmission would be even less. If there was no rough sex and adequate lubrication was used then it is unlikely any vagianl tears occured, again a good sign. Even if he was HIV positive, the transmission rate in a single exposure situation like this one is very low.

I can't tell you not to worry, or even what to do. However, the odds are hugely in your favor that she will not get HIV. Other STDs - who knows. PEP needs to be started as soon as possible to prevent cell-free virion from reaching the fusion stage of the HIV life cycle. If the sex ocurred more than 72 hours ago then you are almost past the point of using PEP, so the decision is then made for you.

If you want to be safe, then you should practice a barrier method of birth control with her for at least 6 months and have her tested at 3 months, 6 months, and yearly after that.

The only other advice I have is that semi-conscious sex with an unknown partner is risky. Even 'safe' sex can go wrong in that situation. Play safe.
 
sweetnes11 said:
what is IMHO ? confused again lol
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IMHO - in my honest opinion, or in my humble opinion.

In answer to the main question of the thread, I agree with those above who have said that you need to get proper advice from a competent medical authority, probably at an STD clinic (or similar), where everyone will be well-versed in this area of medicine. Some STDs can be tested for very early (i.e. now); others, for example HIV and hepatitis B, take much longer to show up on tests.

The question of post-exposure prophylaxis for HIV is a tricky one that can only be decided by you in consultation with the doctor, although I think it is most commonly used in cases of known exposure among health professionals (e.g. from a needle-stick injury).

In the mean time, you ought to be practising safe sex with each other until you both have the all-clear.

Good luck!
 
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Hey guys thanks for all the input.. Been very stressful but will get through it... I just hope everything is ok

I spoke to someone about those afterwards treatments.. There not really the best idea because they make you really sick, do not have high success rate, and also.. If later in life you ever contract HIV you cannot use that medicine as treatment.

I guess say a prayer or somehting.. I dunno LOL
Thanks though
 
Just to clarify a few point on the PEP issue - there is a high success rate if the PEP regemin is started immediately following exposure, and if it turns out you are negative but get HIV later in life, having been exposed to those drugs has NO impact on their future efferctiveness.
 
SC4EVA said:
Hey guys thanks for all the input.. Been very stressful but will get through it... I just hope everything is ok

I spoke to someone about those afterwards treatments.. There not really the best idea because they make you really sick, do not have high success rate, and also.. If later in life you ever contract HIV you cannot use that medicine as treatment.

I guess say a prayer or somehting.. I dunno LOL
Thanks though
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Who did you speak to about those "afterwards treatments"?

Not wishing to sound like a cracked record, but you simply MUST get expert advice here - both of you. Chances are that you're both OK, but advice from friends or from strangers on the internet is not the go for something like this.

Anyway, once again, all the best.
 
yeeeees? and then what happened?

did you get in touch with the guy once you came out of your stupor? his cooperation would be useful here as well

on a side note, i have done a fair bit of research into the HIV virus and its transmission, and would like to encourage you by saying that its transmission rate is very low in scenarios like yours

if youre interested do a google on rape and HIV, youll get a nice idea and some stats from there

cheers
 
Golden,

Thanks for the support.. Like I said we know the person somewhat.. He had been tested recently but you cant go by that.. Not going to stress. Next week just gonna get the whole kit and kaboole test for every possible thing and go from there...
 
Most fucked up thread ever.
This is sort of like saying your whole town got destroyed and you are worried if the furniture in your house is ok.
 
SC4EVA: good choice

superdave: different folks, different strokes. gotta respect everyones choices, especially ones like this which dont hurt anyone who didnt get into it willingly

cheerios
 
GoldenDelicious said:
SC4EVA: good choice

superdave: different folks, different strokes. gotta respect everyones choices, especially ones like this which dont hurt anyone who didnt get into it willingly

cheerios
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I dont respect everyones choices, just like some people dont respect all of mine. Just like Im sure youve known people to make stupid choices and you are left saying to yourself "why the fuck did they do that, that was very stupid".
 
superdave said:


I dont respect everyones choices, just like some people dont respect all of mine. Just like Im sure youve known people to make stupid choices and you are left saying to yourself "why the fuck did they do that, that was very stupid".
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sure i say that all the time

what im saying though is respecting someone elses choice, not agreeing with it

if SC4EVA and his wife are fine with sleeping with other people and arent going to self destruct, well good luck to them. who am i to say different? who is anyone?

the only concern id have is the situation that has arisen here
 
Well I can definately tell you guys one new years resolution this year!!! LOL.. although.. NYE is a good night :p Just kidding...
 
Here is an idea. If you want to sleep with other people, don't get married. What a fucking concept.
 
jubei said:
Here is an idea. If you want to sleep with other people, don't get married. What a fucking concept.
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As much as I hate to admit it, Jubei's dead on target right.
 
Jubei has a point. None-the-less... do you guys live in Texas?
 
GoldenDelicious said:


sure i say that all the time

what im saying though is respecting someone elses choice, not agreeing with it

if SC4EVA and his wife are fine with sleeping with other people and arent going to self destruct, well good luck to them. who am i to say different? who is anyone?

the only concern id have is the situation that has arisen here
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The situation that has arisen here is a direct result of them fucking other people. If they werent fucking other people then no STD problems can occur. Thats my judgement call.
 
Well not in Texas ..

LOL

And

i dont hate on people who dont agree with my choices... its all good.. I appreciate the feedback..


and

didnt say was married :D
 
SC4EVA said:
Well not in Texas ..

LOL

And

i dont hate on people who dont agree with my choices... its all good.. I appreciate the feedback..


and

didnt say was married :D
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Well, what the fuck bro. "better half" and "living together" equate as being married to most people. Clarify next time.
 
jubei said:
Here is an idea. If you want to sleep with other people, don't get married. What a fucking concept.
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according to your logic, if SC4EVA and his wife did not marry, this situation might still have arisen. if anything, it is even more likely, since each of them would have more partners.

hence, the likelihood of infection (and thereby harm caused) would not be lessened by your suggestion.

therefore id have to say that your statement is based on your preconceptions about marriage and sex (which SC4EVA clearly does not share) rather than any concern for another human being, and furthermore, given the situation in which you have tried to impose your frivolous ideas (that SC4EVA IS married and his partner might be infected with a deadly, incurable disease) id have to say that everyone would be best served by you staying out of this thread. with that attitude anyway.

edit: ok fine so he isnt married. not the point. they are together. lol feeling sheepish :p
 
superdave said:


The situation that has arisen here is a direct result of them fucking other people. If they werent fucking other people then no STD problems can occur. Thats my judgement call.
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first and foremost: none of anyones business but theirs

secondly, if 2 people are so sexually liberated that they can include others in their sex life, chances are they would not be satisfied with being totally exclusive. hence, they might break up and find new partners (there goes your theory about less std exposure) or, even worse, sleep around behind each others back, in which case at least one partner might not know about a possible infection in the other.

this isnt a sexual morality debate, its about controlling SC4EVAs anxiety about what is going on, and making sure the right thing is done in terms of assessment and treatment

since he is on the right track its ok that we hijacked his thread though :D
 
why don't you ask the guy you're talking about to get himself tested for HIV....if he's negative the changes are alot smaller your girl has got it
 
GoldenDelicious said:


first and foremost: none of anyones business but theirs

secondly, if 2 people are so sexually liberated that they can include others in their sex life, chances are they would not be satisfied with being totally exclusive. hence, they might break up and find new partners (there goes your theory about less std exposure) or, even worse, sleep around behind each others back, in which case at least one partner might not know about a possible infection in the other.

this isnt a sexual morality debate, its about controlling SC4EVAs anxiety about what is going on, and making sure the right thing is done in terms of assessment and treatment

since he is on the right track its ok that we hijacked his thread though :D
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Just had to say That you took the words right out of my mouth
I agree 100%
 
It is our business because it has been brought to us in this forum. If you want a personal matter to be your own private business, than it is your obligation to keep it as such.

It is not a morality debate, that is true. It seems to be about who will type a louder response and introduce flawed logic as if it were fact.

On a more opinionated note, what kind of loser lets another guy fuck his "better half" ROTFL.

I guess it would be nice if we could all say, wow bro I really feel for you... I hope you don't get aids or another STD.

I stand by my original statement of:Too bad, but you brought it on yourself.
 
SC4EVA said:
Well not in Texas ..

LOL

And

i dont hate on people who dont agree with my choices... its all good.. I appreciate the feedback..


and

didnt say was married :D
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Please go to the dr. and have yourself tested. And if you know the guy ask him if he would to. Just for everyone's health.

Pamela
 
jubei said:
It is our business because it has been brought to us in this forum. If you want a personal matter to be your own private business, than it is your obligation to keep it as such.
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LOL :D love the dry wit :D

anyway just to be pedantic id have to say that the original intent of the post was to seek advice and help on the matter of infection, not preference- hence discussion of the latter is inappropriate

jubei said:

On a more opinionated note, what kind of loser lets another guy fuck his "better half" ROTFL.

I guess it would be nice if we could all say, wow bro I really feel for you... I hope you don't get aids or another STD.

I stand by my original statement of:Too bad, but you brought it on yourself.
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not nice, but i wont repeat myself about why.
 
Geez, I never would have thought that this would have become so heated. I have been in contact with the person and they are tested reguarly for work and everthing has been good so far so hopefully it will all turn out good.

Golden and everyone else thank you very much for the support and contributions.

Other than that I am recovering too much from NYE to type anymore LOL
 
Well for everyones info.. and my happiness.. I have done all of my test and everything is PERFECT.. Except for a little to high cholestoral.. Thanks for the people who gave support! I guess I learned a good lesson.. Double Bag it!! LOL j/k Thanks though!
 
Hope everything continues to go well, next time try rubber cement and Saran wrap. Cause the Damn things break to often.
 
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