None of my business, but are you on Prozac or any antidepressant related to Prozac? If so, that's 97.02% surely your problem! That's a very, very, VERY common side effect of that family of drugs, and nobody talks about it because it would cause normal people to abuse it (lasting forever), or it would scare some into not taking it if they need it for depression. My wife is extremely hot, and I couldn't hold it for more than a couple minutes. I take Prozac 5mg/day, and I last a long time. It takes about 3 months of taking it every day to kick that side effect in, which is another reason why nobody seems to talk about it. Just to be clear; this is an official known side effect; not an unfounded rumor.
You're not on the wrong team, or your problem would be not getting it up.
Charles