need serious help

[WarriorPL]

I am only looking for serious responses here, please bare with me.
All started with a long day at the beach... kinda burnt my back... was all drained. I get home wanting to sleep, and my friends drag me to a party. I figure ill be there for like 1 hour to say hello and then peace out. There were these two really hot chicks there though.. . and i think to myself... wow those are some hot chicks, definately wanna get with em. Anyways, as the night goes by, i make contact with them both and we begin to talk. One of them was REALLY interested in me... and her friend who has a boyfriend (who was also at the party) seemed interested in me too. Then BOTH of them just begin flirting with me, and teasing and stuff, and then eventually just invite me to an empty room in the house.... well there was none.. so we chill at a table and just talk about random shit. They continue with their ways and i just didn't have the balls to do anything... a room became available, but i just chickened out by then, and just left.
I've had my fare share of women, if it were either a girlfriend or whatever.... but now that i think about it, i've never pursued a girl that's flirted with me... i've always waited till they make their move. I jsut can't push myself to make that first move... i don't have the balls. I clearly see that they want me, but i am always afraid that ill make a fool of myself somehow.

 

[flex123]

so what help are you asking for?

You want people to tell you that you're suppose to follow through when chances for threesomes arise?

 

[PBR]

there are some of us who pray for an encounter like that!!!!

 

[Puddles]

Everyone's afraid they'll do something messed up at one time or another, but really, what's the worst thing that can happen? You do something goofy and people get a good laugh and life goes on. You gotta be able to laugh at yourself and enjoy the commedy when things get wacked or else you'll be afraid to try stuff and that's no fun. People are often their own worst enemies. Just go for it and enjoy yourself!

 

[ZKaudio]

i'm right there with you. I always let the girl do all the work

 

[jubei]

I know what you mean, I'm EXACTLY the same in that respect. Luckily for me enough women make the first move and its smooth sailing from their. I can't tell you how to solve the problem because I suffer from the same affliction.

I guess the simple answer is to just go for it but its not that easy as you well know. Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

what did you want them to do?? rip your clothes off...they WERE making the 1st move & you just "chickened out" so dont sweat it...maybe you actually like less agressive girls???