Lee, the new boyfriend, says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon, but he is the one bringing up the subject about marriage and children. Can someone please tell me what he is really saying? Help me put some sense to this. I'm in no big hurry to get married anytime soon. I just got out of a 7 year relationship six months ago. That felt like a marriage to me. I want children someday but not anytime soon. I want to take my sweet time with Lee and I think he does too. Ladies tell me what you think please!