Men are hard to read sometimes

[BlondeBombshell27]

Lee, the new boyfriend, says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon, but he is the one bringing up the subject about marriage and children. Can someone please tell me what he is really saying? Help me put some sense to this. I'm in no big hurry to get married anytime soon. I just got out of a 7 year relationship six months ago. That felt like a marriage to me. I want children someday but not anytime soon. I want to take my sweet time with Lee and I think he does too. Ladies tell me what you think please!

 

[BUBBLES]

Lee, the new boyfriend, says he doesn't want to get married anytime soon, but he is the one bringing up the subject about marriage and children. Can someone please tell me what he is really saying?

That is a good question.
I have been through a similar situation and I have no idea what to make of it.

Sounds like the guy is just b/shitting to make his mark on you but in reality he is committment phobic.

Isn't that some kind of leading on too?

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

Lee got married right out of high school. He was married for 8 and half years. He has been divorced for two and a half years now. We are totally honest with one another. I don't think that he is leading me on in any way and I'm not leading him on in any way either. I just find what he has been saying a little confusing I will bring up to him on Wednesday night when I see him. We had a wondeful night together tonight. I didn't want it to end.

 

[BUBBLES]

He may come back telling you that you read too much into it and all of that is meant to happen in about 10 years from now after he has tried everyother woman around.

 

[BlondeBombshell27]

We are taking our time. We enjoy each other's company. Why rush anything?

 

[*MissFit*]

U've been dating a month.. relax hun

 

[SoKlueles]

Yeah early in the relationship theres alot of fire and sizzle....and u say alot of things, when the relationship gets more mature, then you start thinking with ur head and not ur heart as much. I know i love my bf and someday i want to marry him someday. I think im a monogomous person anyay.... so Im not going anywhere good luck

 

[*MissFit*]

Yeah early in the relationship theres alot of fire and sizzle....and u say alot of things, when the relationship gets more mature, then you start thinking with ur head and not ur heart as much. I know i love my bf and someday i want to marry him someday. I think im a monogomous person anyay.... so Im not going anywhere good luck

 

[Daisy_Girl]

We are taking our time. We enjoy each other's company. Why rush anything?

Like you said, don't rush anything. Why worry about this now? You've been together a month, and it simply is NOT an issue right now. Stop looking SO deeply into every conversation, it will drive you insane.

 

[PaganPunkstress]

I agree w/ Daisy,
dont stress about it so soon.