not to get itno a sociological argument here, but today everything is based on looks from getting girls to getting a job... No girl wants to get with a fat slob and no big company wants a fat slob representing them. With that being said i know where you are coming from i was always the huge short stalky guy, i was tired of that... I was 235llbs 5"9 and about 15%-18%bf... I was a big guy, but girls didnt go for me... I leaned up to 200lbs at 7%-9%bf and girls won't leave me alone now
So buddy this is what i would do:
Hit up CKD and eat meat cheese and eggs until you get to your desired bodyfat...
After you do that, go back to a regular diet: oatmeal, lean meats, rice, potatoes, beans, veggies...
If you want specifics pm me