I'll tell ya, I've been dieting and exercising for years, and I think the reason it takes people so long to get to where they want to be is because it takes that long to figure the diet and exercise out fully. I was stuck at a certain weight/stats for almost 2 years, and I kept whining that my body just wouldn't change no matter what I did. Well, now that I've accomplished my goal, I can look back and see that I was justifying a lot of behaviors in my own mind that were sabatoging the diet. Like, I followed it perfectly throughout the week, and cheated starting Friday night all the way through Sunday. I told myself - I work out 5 days a week and eat great 5 days a week, this isn't fair that I can't eat on the weekend. Well, now I eat perfectly during the week through til Sunday. Sunday I go pretty nuts with the food and get back on by Monday. Another thing I do is exclude sugar from my diet completely. Whereas before, I might say to myself "this one hershey kiss won't make a difference..." I now think, "not one itty bitty of sugar is in my system, this hershey kiss might change my glucose levels, it's not worth it." So I am very strict without variation until the time I allow myself to eat. I didn't use any supplements whatsoever besides protein powder - I haven't found it necessary, the diet and exercise alone does it. If you have Excel, you can view a sample of what I eat, I put this together for a friend
http://www.chickenpope.com/links/newyeardiet.xls . I hope it helps anyone who needs it!!
Another hard thing about dieting for me is the SABATOGE. I find that the people around me constantly try to sabatoge my dieting efforts. They try to offer you food, complain when you don't eat, I hate that! My friends and family both do it, but I don't give in