How can I ask her

[anthrax]

There is a girl I've been small talking to for a while
She's okay but I've seen her with a guy who was obviously her BF

Yesterday she talked to me as if we've known each other well and were somewhat close, almost flirting w/ me

I'd like to know for sure if she really has a BF but since I see her on a regular basis (she lives close to where I am) I don't want to look like a fool if she says she indeed has a BF
What should I do?

 

[PBR]

bro there is nothing wrong about asking her if she indeed has a BF...not knowing and acting weird around an unknown situation is much more of a uncomfortable circumstance...this in itself could lead to something unknowingly foolish...just ask bro. she will admire your maturity and consideration...

 

[anthrax]

bro there is nothing wrong about asking her if she indeed has a BF...not knowing and acting weird around an unknown situation is much more of a uncomfortable circumstance...this in itself could lead to something unknowingly foolish...just ask bro. she will admire your maturity and consideration...

I guess you're right Dr Phil

I have to find a way to bring up the subject w/o looking too obvious ... like

"Nice weather, hey?"
"yes, nice weather"
"Btw, do you have a BF?"

 

[PBR]

I guess you're right Dr Phil

I have to find a way to bring up the subject w/o looking too obvious ... like

"Nice weather, hey?"
"yes, nice weather"
"Btw, do you have a BF?"

actually throwing in some humor like that is great...good call bro.

 

[Gymgurl]

Just ASK her

 

[immortalis]

Just ASK her

no shit.

 

[KillahBee]

Does it matter to you?

I ask this question because many times I don't want to know. If it's a situation where I am not necessarily interested in becoming this girl's monogamous boyfriend AND I get the feeling that she is interested in me (regardless of her BF) AND I don't consider it "immoral" to participate in a "cheating" situation, then I don't want to know if she has a BF and I certainly don't want to bring attention to it and put her mind in that place.

But, that's me.

 

[anthrax]

Does it matter to you?

I ask this question because many times I don't want to know. If it's a situation where I am not necessarily interested in becoming this girl's monogamous boyfriend AND I get the feeling that she is interested in me (regardless of her BF) AND I don't consider it "immoral" to participate in a "cheating" situation, then I don't want to know if she has a BF and I certainly don't want to bring attention to it and put her mind in that place.

But, that's me.

Good point!

 

[Gymgurl]

I would rather a guy just ask me if I am interested ot have a bf or whatever...I don't think anythin gless of him if I do I am flattered that he is interested and if something changes I would keep him in mind

 

[gotmilk]

and if something changes I would keep him in mind