i had a similar problem. i hated oatmeal, but really wanted to like it. this is what i did:
buy the regular oats (not the instant)
take a slice of an apple, and chop it up into small pieces
add chopped apple to 1 cup of water
bring water to a boil
reduce heat to simmer and add oats
when done mix with 1 cup of vanilla protein powder (i use promax by sportpharma), cinnamon, and 1 tablespoon of Flax seed meal (i get mine from Trader Joes)
i love this stuff. i will eat it 2-3 times a day.