carlsuen, I completely agree with you. I'm young (24), married for 5 years, have two kids...etc...etc.... I gained a whole lot of weight with my son (my first), and my husband, not once, pulled me off the pedestal that he keeps me on. He shows me pure respect everyday. He's a quality man. Works hard, plays hard, and loves hard. He's very good looking. But he's not shredded, or big, or rich. He's just a decent man who treats his wife with the respect and honesty and love that she deserves, and I will always do the same for him. And no, I'm not some fat, ugly, slob. I'm a former Miss Florida Teen USA, with her shape back, and have had many chances to cheat on him. but have never given anyone else the time of day. It's pure love, NOT infatuation. In our short five years, we've had two kids, been piss poor broke, and had several other difficult time, and not once, not even once, have I thought about cheating on him.
You are the company you keep.