As the title goes, there's this buddy of my brother's whose wife is an major milf. Thing is couple of years ago we ended us piss drunk at a party and kissed(she was married then, hubby out of town) .
After that we started messagin each other, lite suff first but then downright sex chat, fact is we had textin sex
Couple of months earlier, we all up (i have a giirl friend) met up at a club for drinks and when it was time to leave she had to go the ladies. I excused myself too saying i had to use the mens room. I caught up with her and then she made the move and kissed me again. I said one more, so she did it again. Broke up for the night. We texted each other later the other day and everything was cool, but now its been a month since we've chatted and earlier it was always me who chased her bvut now i wanna wait for her. Right? or should i just get on with it., I dont want her to think i'm desperate and let her play me but i am

so what should i do? wait for her call or call her first?
Come on playas help me out..