ive gone home a few times with women that were not height weight proportioned but i never tossed them aside after that night. it all depends on the woman herself, if she is, for the most part, fun, easy to talk to, outgoing i will stay at leased friends with them and leave it to them to decide if they cant handle friendship. doesnt hurt my feelings, i just cant blow them off if i dont have a reason other than her just being overweight. but you have to be upfront in the beginnig about your intentions or it just ends real bad and some women are vendictive as heck.