wtf do I do?

[econanalyst]

hey boyz,
Ive been with my girl for over 4 months....We havent had sex yet (which is fine)...but theres a problem....when i go down on her or finger her I cant make her orgasm..the reason is cause she says to stop because I guess her hands get so tense that it starts to hurt her....What should I do? Anyone else ever get this problem?

 

[The_LaDiEs_MaN]

First of all, how old is she?... Sounds like a virgin to me, just give her time. Peace.

 

[Captain_insano]

You need to try circular motions stightly above her clit so that she doesn't get so sensitve and tell you to stop. Practice makes perfect.

 

[firewitch]

read this in Esquire: Touch her so lightly that you think it is just too light

good advice with some women, whether you are using tongue or fingers. When her labia gets swollen she can take more pressure.