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And what are you going to do when one if one of your kids comes to you to confess he/she is gay?
which fellow eliters do you consider to be "deep in the closet" gay?
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And what are you going to do when one if one of your kids comes to you to confess he/she is gay?
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That will neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeever happen to him.
Wow. We haven't had a thread like this in chat for a while. Entertainment is all that comes to mind. Luckily, I can just keep the modding in chat to chat mods and enjoy the ride...
Carry on gentlemen, this is just starting to get interesting...
Carry on gentlemen, this is just starting to get interesting...
dawlin' ....in my teens/early 20's i am ashamed to admit i was just as much of a rabid, god fearing, self ritcheous homophobe as glad is now. my intense southern babtist religious training/brainwashing and my narrow minded, conservative, ridgid family moral values made me into a teenage prig.
hatefull words that i said, good people whose feelings i went out of my way to hurt...these actions will haunt/hurt/embarass me until my dying day.
gradually i came around.
i'm only sorry it took me so long.
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It's so sad that our society is so fucking repressed that we have to be made to feel dirty/ashamed of WHO WE ARE just because "somebody else" said so.
I watched my ex-inlaws with this utter bullshit and sadly none of them have changed. My ex-brother-in-law, to me over 20 years ago it was OBVIOUS the man was gay. Yet his entire family denied it. The only reason that my ex had any semblence of a relationship was due to MY URGING to get to know his brother regardless of whether he was gay or straight. I mean, really what difference would it make?
Oh Gladiator - guess what? Even though he later confessed to me and my husband (his brother) that he ALWAYS KNEW HE WAS GAY he still got married in his early 20's and had a son. duh... think for a minute outside of your silly little bubble. Gay people have children all the time.
He watched a loved life partner shrivel and slowly die from aids but because his entire family were such fucking homophobes he was not allowed to acknowledge his pain and devastation the entire time, not even after the funeral where the only words of "comfort" he got from his own mother (none of the family attended the funeral) were, "Thank goodness he's dead and won't be a burden to you anymore." That man was "just a housemate after all" I mean, it wasn't like my exbro-in-law could have POSSIBLY LOVED HIM.
So then lo and behold, my exbitchsterinlaw has two sons, the second of which was flamingly obvioulsy gay from very early on - we are talking 4. But of course, just as her older brother (who finally succumbed to aids a few years ago) "was just going through a phase" when he came out of the closet to his siblings bout the age of 40 something there was NO WAY HER SON COULD BE GAY.
Fucking morons.
My daughters' cousin finally came out to them recently. The boy is bout 18 now.
Don't worry gladiator, regardless of what your christian homeys in prison told you god will love you regardless. And even if he don't there are non-haters in the world who will accept you for your merits and wont give a damn about your sexuality.
lmao off @ accepting gays. That will never happen as long as i fucking live.
OK BIKINImom i said it was sick, that doesnt mean shit except i hate the fact that two guys try to justify their bullshit feelings toward one another. They only love the guy because
A. they were abused
B. girls scare them for whatever fucking reason
C. So confused about life, something happened to make them try this shit out
You make it seem like im disturbed by it so much that i have to be gay too? Why because i post about its bullshit on an EF thread? Id hardly say im "disturbed" by it. If someone asked me in a room what i felt about gays id say ehh i dont really understand it. I wouldnt freak out about it and get all disturbed by it.
On EF i can prettymuch say whatever the fuck, so fuck gays. What they do is sick, i dont care why but to try and make it "equality" is not gonna happen. Fuck that!
Why the fuck do you think over 50% of california agrees with me? There must be a reason, a pretty good one too. Marriage is between a man and a woman, if a dude wants to be with a dude and live with him or whatever fucked up life he wants then go for it homo, but youre not gettin married and letting my kid thinking thats OK.
I might be extreme about this but in essence the only thing ive ever done about it is rant on an EF forum
OK BIKINImom i said it was sick, that doesnt mean shit except i hate the fact that two guys try to justify their bullshit feelings toward one another. They only love the guy because
A. they were abused
B. girls scare them for whatever fucking reason
C. So confused about life, something happened to make them try this shit out
You make it seem like im disturbed by it so much that i have to be gay too? Why because i post about its bullshit on an EF thread? Id hardly say im "disturbed" by it. If someone asked me in a room what i felt about gays id say ehh i dont really understand it. I wouldnt freak out about it and get all disturbed by it.
On EF i can prettymuch say whatever the fuck, so fuck gays. What they do is sick, i dont care why but to try and make it "equality" is not gonna happen. Fuck that!
Why the fuck do you think over 50% of california agrees with me? There must be a reason, a pretty good one too. Marriage is between a man and a woman, if a dude wants to be with a dude and live with him or whatever fucked up life he wants then go for it homo, but youre not gettin married and letting my kid thinking thats OK.
I might be extreme about this but in essence the only thing ive ever done about it is rant on an EF forum
Q: are people born gay, or is it an acquired taste?
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Dude, you just reaffirmed what we already figured out about you. And I will say it again, it's perfectly OK for you to be gay.
And here is another bit of information for you, there was a time when MOST of society said it was ok for US citizens could OWN OTHER HUMAN BEINGS. They also said that it was ok for women to be denied the right to vote. It is also legal for a woman to get an abortion if she so chooses.
Which one of these *3 states of reality* did everybody else get to decide were right or wrong for you? You ever hear of the holocaust? I wonder how so many people AROUND THE WORLD sat by silently and let a madman butcher MILLIONS of all sorts of people. Could it be because so many people are JUST LIKE YOU in that they are comfortable allowing "everyone else" do their thinking for them?
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i absolutely do NOT want to offend anyone. . .but if i had to vote, i'm pretty sure i wouldn't be in favor of marriage and workplace insurance. . .and the fucked-up thing is, i'm not even sure why. . .i'm not some (completely) backward-ass red-neck, i'm not a bible-banger, i was raised (mostly) by a mother that stressed tolerance and understanding of others that thought, looked, lived, acted different than "we" did. . .but for some reason i just can't get my head around it. . .maybe it's cause one of my old college girlfriends caught teh gaye shortly after she ceased dating me (ok. . .i'm joking. . .not about the story, that actually happened. . .but, my reaction to it was "good for you" she never seemed completely happy until she quite trying to be something she wasn't. . .and i loved her. . .still do. . .so i really was/am happy for her). . .and, i don't think i'm a homophobe, i bear no ill-will toward anyone simply on account of their race, gender, religion or orientation. . .i guess maybe i see those issues as a burden on a couple of systems that are already stressed to their limits under the weight of the population that was originally contemplated by the law. . .plus, where insurance is concerned, the combined monthly cost for two single people is generally a LOT cheaper than one policy for a married couple. . .whatever. . .i'm sure i'm all wrong. . .just my $.02. . .
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From all of the conversations I've had with gay people and my own life experiences I would have to say that people are primarily wired to prefer one/other more. There is no such thing as a body that is 100% gay or 100% straight but varying degrees of preference.
Nobody told me to like boys. I just always did. I had a fascination with women for a time. I explored that fascination freely and after I got the t-shirt I decided that it was more about the taboo nature of the union and nothing to do with the actual sex. So now I have ZERO desire to go there. Not to mention that women are complicated creatures. I couldn't imagine being in a true lesbian relationship. And swinging just does NOTHING for me.
I believe that sexuality should be treated like any other appetite. You should be free to sample whatever taste life offers and eventually you will decide what you like and what you prefer and what you will eat "just because you are hungry."
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