where are people meeting members of the opposite sex?

[SoreArms]

In your experience, would you say most are haughty and supercilious or are they open to the idea? Do you approach really attractive women, attractive women, plain women or what? This is mainly why i dont approach women, i wait for them to approach me (or give signs) so i don't get out much as a result.

It's always easier to hit up women in social places/events, but that is where I find women to be more stuck up (but not always). Thats probably because they are being hit on by every drunk/horny guy in the place.
In my experience, women aren't as stand offish in regular settings and are usually flattered. The chicks that I have actually had the balls to walk up to have generally been accepting of it and I've had some good long term romances out of it, one that I met this way even became the love of my life (now an ex). Of course I will tell you that all the women I have tried to talk are hot, because if I got the interest to try to talk to them, i obviously found them attractive but remmeber, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am probably more likely to talk to women I find less attractive at clubs and parties than I would at places like the market or music store.

 

[gymrat]

clinics for drug abuse and eating disorders - chicks there are usually filthy rich, real hot, like to party, and easy to manipulate due to their multiple mental deficiencies and afflictions

classes, coffee shops, gyms are overrated - people there are just too mundane, 'normal', no eccentricities=boring, whatever..

lol

 

[tiger88]

answer to approach a hot chics why u cant = you guys are pussies


everyone gets redijected so sack up and go!

 

[SoreArms]

everyone gets redijected so sack up and go!

true that yo!

 

[tiger88]

true that yo!

i have been redijected alot but i seem to get numbers alot as well

when the redjection comes take it like a gentleman and just move on

after a few rejections u dont pissed off and since u just met the chic like 10 minutes ago u have zero emotional feelings for her so u wont feel like u lost something special like that

 

[GoldenDelicious]

weddings
parties (NOT bars)
on the street, at the shops, in the mall, where they work (ie the cute secretary)

as tiger88 said, be confident and chat away

you could try reading stuff like the elite players guide but really, thats what its all about

maybe your problem is that you need to wash you fingers before you leave the house

 

[tiger88]

i always like the question approach

last week at applebees there were 3 chics and one was cute who i wanted to talk to badly

so i went over and sat down and asked if i get there advice....
i asked then whats there take on a guy who wears a pink shirt ? and they were omg they like it and it shows the guy has confidence and etc..

well broke the ice then coommented on there clothes...small talk this and that

and got the chics #

 

[Lao Tzu]

Its not rejection that bothers me, just the idea of a woman viewing me as 'another guy that wants me' and treating me like shit. A polite 'no' i think i can handle. The former is soooo demeaning i can't even describe it.

 

[tiger88]

Its not rejection that bothers me, just the idea of a woman viewing me as 'another guy that wants me' and treating me like shit. A polite 'no' i think i can handle. The former is soooo demeaning i can't even describe it.

well chances are u arent gonna see this person ever again


and when u ask for the # or what ever

u shoiuld be able to tell if its a yes or no

 

[onebigab]

You really have to go to some upscale places to meet real women. Places like Hotel Bars(very popular), lounges, outdoor cafes. Regular bars all you'll find are teases. Girls who want to play games. Fuck that shit, if I want games i'll babysit my nephews for the day.

Also don't forget about the supermarket and laundry day.