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where are people meeting members of the opposite sex?

parole hearings.
tattoo parlors.
monster truck rallies.
support groups.
AA meetings.
psychologist's offices.
clinics.
drunk tanks.
flea markets.
street corners.
dark allies.

try one of those.
 
i have no idea either. I 'think' there needs to be some kind of physical association between the 2 of you before you start talking (ie same class, same friends, same work, etc) or they will reject you flat out. So that cuts me down to pretty much no options. Damn.


You still accepting fights Tuc? If your crippy ass is in indiana give me a ring, i took karate when i was 7.
 
Bran987 said:
good call


Too bad I aint been there since I was 6.

This really hot customer of mine came in today and I swear she seemed interested, but I am such a pussy I barely even talked to her. I'll probably never find out.
 
parties, through friends, school, sports, gym, bars/clubs/restourants, beach is a good one during summer time

theres other places that I cant think of right now
 
hardrock said:
This really hot customer of mine came in today and I swear she seemed interested, but I am such a pussy I barely even talked to her. I'll probably never find out.


Don't feel bad

today, I was at a music store and a this hot chick. I told myself, I can't leave without at least trying to talk to her. I walked to the isle where she was and got near her, but then I couldn't think of anything to say, so I didn't say anything. I left pissed at myself for being such a pussy. She looked like a hot lay too.
 
SoreArms said:
Don't feel bad

today, I was at a music store and a this hot chick. I told myself, I can't leave without at least trying to talk to her. I walked to the isle where she was and got near her, but then I couldn't think of anything to say, so I didn't say anything. I left pissed at myself for being such a pussy. She looked like a hot lay too.

In your experience do strange women like being approached like that? I thought most strange women (especially attractive women) were really haughty and standoffish.
 
clinics for drug abuse and eating disorders - chicks there are usually filthy rich, real hot, like to party, and easy to manipulate due to their multiple mental deficiencies and afflictions :o

classes, coffee shops, gyms are overrated - people there are just too mundane, 'normal', no eccentricities=boring, whatever..
 
I am not "in the game" anymore, but I see lots of attractive people at work (clients) and when I am out shopping. Definately not at school (accounting major) hahaha!
 
nordstrom said:
In your experience do strange women like being approached like that? I thought most strange women (especially attractive women) were really haughty and standoffish.

You'll never know unless you try to talk to them.

I've tried to talk to some chicks that turned out to be snooty ass bitches, then I've walked up to some that turned out to be great payoff to the risk.

today, my pussy ass was afraid to take the risk, so I'll never know which she might have been.
 
SoreArms said:
You'll never know unless you try to talk to them.

I've tried to talk to some chicks that turned out to be snooty ass bitches, then I've walked up to some that turned out to be great payoff to the risk.

today, my pussy ass was afraid to take the risk, so I'll never know which she might have been.

In your experience, would you say most are haughty and supercilious or are they open to the idea? Do you approach really attractive women, attractive women, plain women or what? This is mainly why i dont approach women, i wait for them to approach me (or give signs) so i don't get out much as a result.
 
nordstrom said:
In your experience do strange women like being approached like that? I thought most strange women (especially attractive women) were really haughty and standoffish.



key is to be confident and make eye contact ( u can tell if she into u right away

also if u approach a strange chic and u want to talk to her

ask her a question or say her out fit looks nice or something...key is keep talkin! eye contact

and u look like u taste like candy
 
nordstrom said:
In your experience, would you say most are haughty and supercilious or are they open to the idea? Do you approach really attractive women, attractive women, plain women or what? This is mainly why i dont approach women, i wait for them to approach me (or give signs) so i don't get out much as a result.


It's always easier to hit up women in social places/events, but that is where I find women to be more stuck up (but not always). Thats probably because they are being hit on by every drunk/horny guy in the place.
In my experience, women aren't as stand offish in regular settings and are usually flattered. The chicks that I have actually had the balls to walk up to have generally been accepting of it and I've had some good long term romances out of it, one that I met this way even became the love of my life (now an ex). Of course I will tell you that all the women I have tried to talk are hot, because if I got the interest to try to talk to them, i obviously found them attractive but remmeber, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am probably more likely to talk to women I find less attractive at clubs and parties than I would at places like the market or music store.
 
juve said:
clinics for drug abuse and eating disorders - chicks there are usually filthy rich, real hot, like to party, and easy to manipulate due to their multiple mental deficiencies and afflictions :o

classes, coffee shops, gyms are overrated - people there are just too mundane, 'normal', no eccentricities=boring, whatever..

lol
 
SoreArms said:
true that yo!



i have been redijected alot but i seem to get numbers alot as well

when the redjection comes take it like a gentleman and just move on

after a few rejections u dont pissed off and since u just met the chic like 10 minutes ago u have zero emotional feelings for her so u wont feel like u lost something special like that
 
weddings
parties (NOT bars)
on the street, at the shops, in the mall, where they work (ie the cute secretary)

as tiger88 said, be confident and chat away

you could try reading stuff like the elite players guide but really, thats what its all about

maybe your problem is that you need to wash you fingers before you leave the house ;)
 
i always like the question approach

last week at applebees there were 3 chics and one was cute who i wanted to talk to badly

so i went over and sat down and asked if i get there advice....
i asked then whats there take on a guy who wears a pink shirt ? :) and they were omg they like it and it shows the guy has confidence and etc..

well broke the ice then coommented on there clothes...small talk this and that

and got the chics #


:)
 
Its not rejection that bothers me, just the idea of a woman viewing me as 'another guy that wants me' and treating me like shit. A polite 'no' i think i can handle. The former is soooo demeaning i can't even describe it.
 
nordstrom said:
Its not rejection that bothers me, just the idea of a woman viewing me as 'another guy that wants me' and treating me like shit. A polite 'no' i think i can handle. The former is soooo demeaning i can't even describe it.



well chances are u arent gonna see this person ever again


and when u ask for the # or what ever

u shoiuld be able to tell if its a yes or no
 
You really have to go to some upscale places to meet real women. Places like Hotel Bars(very popular), lounges, outdoor cafes. Regular bars all you'll find are teases. Girls who want to play games. Fuck that shit, if I want games i'll babysit my nephews for the day.

Also don't forget about the supermarket and laundry day.
 
bars restaurants beach supermarket dry cleaner around downtown etc

I just decided that if I am attracted I will say hello. It usually works, if it doesn't I can comfortably say it is their loss. Been on a lot of dates, most are all the same, kinda bored, want to move 'up' the food chain a little.
 
Stalking is almost 100% effective when you get to the stage where you lie under her bed.

You are not really meeting her but I still give myself crdeit for being that close for so long.



Oh shit............another post for the FBI.
 
Cool looking boats are golden. Just chat for a second and ask if they want to go for a ride.

Run out of gas in the middle of the lake....she is all yours orb.
 
crisis pregnancy center.

J/k - that's what I say when people ask why I volunteer there - "to meet women.'

House parties are probably the best bet if you are looking for quality woman. If you are looking for essentially a free hooker, low end dance clubs (polyesthers here in DC) kind of is the place to be.
 
my dorm

I was "wrestling" with this one chick last night.
25 hot girls within 75ft of me, its nice.
 
just be confident in whatver you say and have some sense of humor and you'll meet chicks anywhere

some dont really know what confidence is so mostly thats the problem
 
onebigab said:
Places like Hotel Bars(very popular), lounges, outdoor cafes. .
Real women there????????????
Places like those are crowded with escorts, wtf you talking about? High class escorts, not high class women.
Chicks in the dorm - very risky affair if you're looking for casual sex - once they get attached - they can always find you, come bitch about it, and spread the rumors all over the place - too close to home.
Laundry places are great though you can take a peak at the variety of cloth she has/wears :o
and I also like book stores (B&N, Borders) since I like to read lotsa periodicals but don't like shelling $$ for it - all of them have a cafe also which is convenient :)

Confidence and initial attraction=100% game with the chicks :o
 
tuc biscuit said:
pretty much the only place I ever meet them is at bars, where am I going wrong?

I work in a bar, and I've come to the conclusion that I HATE all the women I meet there. I no longer have a social life outside of work, so I'm fucked for other female-meeting opportunities, and I simply refuse to get involved with co-workers.

It's a good thing that I'm old and don't care anymore...
 
Db, i work part time at a bar as well. I am totally turned off by any customer who i see there on a regular basis spending their time and money guzzling liquor. I am never flattered when a drunk or semi drunk customer hits on me. Unless a hot guy comes in and drinks water all night, I would not be interested. NO way.
 
Smurfy said:
Db, i work part time at a bar as well. I am totally turned off by any customer who i see there on a regular basis spending their time and money guzzling liquor. I am never flattered when a drunk or semi drunk customer hits on me. Unless a hot guy comes in and drinks water all night, I would not be interested. NO way.
I find it amusing that people that serve liquor consider themselves superior to the consumers.
 
Libraries... Church is a good one...
Anywhere public internet access is provided...
Shoe Stores, grocery stores- ANY kind of stores, really...
Good Luck to All!
:rainbow:
 
Dalonia said:
Libraries... Church is a good one...
Anywhere public internet access is provided...
Shoe Stores, grocery stores- ANY kind of stores, really...
Good Luck to All!
:rainbow:
worst first post ever.


it was so irrelivent it didnt even make sense!
 
Internet am setting up a meeting with one I met on a board like this, Church once, school lots but mostly too young for my taste at 36 I almost feel like a molester didn't stop me from going out with a 19 year old last semester though.
 
tuc biscuit said:
pretty much the only place I ever meet them is at bars, where am I going wrong?

Any place can be full of opportunity.

I've only met ONE girl at a bar that I ended up dating, everything else was just hooking up for fucking and then you sober up (or she does) and go "god damnit!"

Do you play any sports? Join a sports league like volleyball or softball.. (co-ed is the key here).

Book clubs? I know that sounds gay, but women love a guy with an intellectual side.

If you are religious, try church.

Restaurants... this is tricky cuz you don't wanna go bugging people, but I've met girls while out to eat before and hit it off.

The beach is a popular one for me here in San Diego.

Through friends? This is by far the way I have met the majority of women I have dated. Friends of friends of friends can often times get you into situations where you end up meeting someone cool who you otherwise never would have.

I dunno if that makes sense, but the first girl I ever really loved.. I met her because this guy I knew from a friend in college had a girlfriend in Phoenix.. she came out to visit and she met me and said "I have a friend who'd be perfect for you back home! Too bad she is taken though"..

well a month or so later this girl broke up so the next time my buddies girlfriend came back she brought her friend! We had a chance to talk briefly a couple days before.. but it was instant chemistry and we edned up dating off and on for 3 years.

She recently just got married to the guy she started seeing right as we broke up. That always sucks.
 
SublimeZM said:
worst first post ever.


it was so irrelivent it didnt even make sense!

worst 1,456th post ever
how is saying that church, school and retail stores is a good place to meet people off topic?
that was mean bor running somebody off on their first post like dat
 
OMEGA said:

Naw the girls at my gym are either there to socialize with their girlfriends and not interested or the few I respect are there to train hard and don't want to be hit on.Besides I'm there to fight the iron not chase.....
 
yea sports is a good way to meet girls

I play basketball so both in college it makes it easier for me and if I'm playing streetball or just pick up games theres usually girls there who love the cock
 
hot women are everywhere......survery the situation walk up and start light yapping with a smile. nah u don wanna fuck alright theres so much pussy around....move out of the way bitch...
 
I have to agree with the Hotel bar and upscale lounge sentiment. Thompson Hotel, Hudson Hotel, and lounges in the W are great places to meet girls. Another really good one is in Starbucks, I read a book at a table in a busy one, everytime I meet someone, not always my ideal girl, but asking what someone's book is about is an easy conversation starter. The hardest part about meeting someone is what to say during the initial approach....
 
SoreArms said:
Don't feel bad

today, I was at a music store and a this hot chick. I told myself, I can't leave without at least trying to talk to her. I walked to the isle where she was and got near her, but then I couldn't think of anything to say, so I didn't say anything. I left pissed at myself for being such a pussy. She looked like a hot lay too.


He who Hesitates......Masterbates.
 
Tuc, why didn't you just come strait to me on this one?

I thought everyone knew the best place to meet easy women is at an abortion clinic.
 
abortion clinic, haha


find girls at places where you find appealing like the gym, and you already have something in common. Another common place to meet people is your workplace - read that in men's health
 
Bran987 said:
worst 1,456th post ever
how is saying that church, school and retail stores is a good place to meet people off topic?
that was mean bor running somebody off on their first post like dat
oh :(

im sorry can i have my karma back digger :verygood:
 
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