tuc biscuit said:pretty much the only place I ever meet them is at bars, where am I going wrong?
Any place can be full of opportunity.
I've only met ONE girl at a bar that I ended up dating, everything else was just hooking up for fucking and then you sober up (or she does) and go "god damnit!"
Do you play any sports? Join a sports league like volleyball or softball.. (co-ed is the key here).
Book clubs? I know that sounds gay, but women love a guy with an intellectual side.
If you are religious, try church.
Restaurants... this is tricky cuz you don't wanna go bugging people, but I've met girls while out to eat before and hit it off.
The beach is a popular one for me here in San Diego.
Through friends? This is by far the way I have met the majority of women I have dated. Friends of friends of friends can often times get you into situations where you end up meeting someone cool who you otherwise never would have.
I dunno if that makes sense, but the first girl I ever really loved.. I met her because this guy I knew from a friend in college had a girlfriend in Phoenix.. she came out to visit and she met me and said "I have a friend who'd be perfect for you back home! Too bad she is taken though"..
well a month or so later this girl broke up so the next time my buddies girlfriend came back she brought her friend! We had a chance to talk briefly a couple days before.. but it was instant chemistry and we edned up dating off and on for 3 years.
She recently just got married to the guy she started seeing right as we broke up. That always sucks.