violent sex - turn on or turn off?

[foreigngirl]

well?

I'll go first. For me its a turn on most of the time, not all the time. Its exciting when we get in like a "fight" scratching, pushing and cussing out each other and then have some hot sex

 

[Tytan]

Usually a turn on with a little slapping and stuff, but the nails drawing blood from my sides is too much....

 

[foreigngirl]

Usually a turn on with a little slapping and stuff, but the nails drawing blood from my sides is too much....

oh, no, I am not talking about that rough, no blood and no scars left after

 

[Dial_tone]

I like a lil angry sex once in a while.

 

[galaxy]

Turn off

To me rough sex and choking = sexually molested as a youth

 

[Gymgurl]

Now angry sex is great...the kind where you are fuming mad at each other but have sex.....

 

[H_T_]

Now angry sex is great...the kind where you are fuming mad at each other but have sex.....

ya, nothing like a good punishment-fuck.

 

[stormin67]

How bout' a grudge fuck ?? You know, like one more time.

 

[jenscats5]

Rough play can be fun!! It all depends on the play itself and what you feel like doing at the moment....

 

[Frisky]

I think a good ol' grappling match that ends up in ripping clothes off and fucking is GREAT!

But i'm not into all that angry stuff... If its all in fun then fine, I like some 'word's' used in the bedroom but theres a difference between using them in the heat of the moment and using them because you're angry. For me the two don't mix.