OK. wow, in major need of input. stress on this = 500000xinfinity
Alright, so before I got the surgery done I told only 2 people outside of my parents that I was getting it done, they were my best friend and my. Because 1) I'm very private about these matters and didn't think anyone really had to know but me and the people I choose to tell. 2) I wasn't 100% sure I would go through with it, things coudl have come up and I could have had to skip the procedure. 3) heaven forbid something went wrong, that would have been terrible having something so traumatic being so public, and 4) I didn't want any gossip or speculation.
So, I told my group of friends that I would be out of town for a bit, that way no questions as to why I wasn't around for a few days.
Well, isssue arises here: Apparently, one or two guys in my group of freinds saw that my car moved around a bit and were like 'um, something up." they asked my boyfriend about it (who knows, of course about the procedure) and he was like "dunno, her dad is home so maybe that's it". One of my guy friends then straight up said to my bf "soo, you can't talk about it then?"
This brings me to think- alright, my friends aren't idiots- so I'm thinkin I may tell my closer friends because of the following (I dig listing out stuff, lol).
1. If they start to gossip or inquire about it amoung themselves my surgery might come out in a more negative light such as: "wow, why did she try to hide this?" or "geez, was she that dissatisfied w/ her body". I know that my friends love me and wouldn't be cruel or malicious but they would be confused
2. I can't wear baggy shirts forever.
3. I wan't them to know that I am happy with my breast aug- not ashamed of it. I know i don't have to defend my decisions to anyone, I did it for all the right reasons and they should be happy for me and supportive.
4. But I'm also leaving for NY in a few days so maybe I could pull the whole "mother nature pulls some wierd shit once in awhile".
My question really is this how do I tell them in a way that doesn't make a big deal out of it, and really closes the discussion afterwards. Probably, the only way it will be a huge deal is if I make it one, otherwise they will be like "hey, didn't see that coming...whoa". I wan't to let them know and know that it's not some huge thing that is going to change me but at the same time understand that I DO NOT want them discussing it with other people.
I don't think it's anyones business but mine and some very close friends.
The point of this ramble I guess is if you have had implants how did you handle the situation- any advice?