So,,

[Bebe Girl]

I have this one guy friend who CONSTANLY hits on me, and makes sexual comments.. I always dismiss EVERYTHING he says .. and shut him down.. its to the point where I dont even wanna talk to him becuase I dont like that... should I say something??

I mean I think he would get the hint ... like when he says "sit on my face" and I say NO GO SHIT IN A HAT!! you would think he would stop

 

[Deleted member 33117]

You need to sit him down and say, "Look orb, I am not interested and your comments re becoming very offensive to me. If you do not stop I'm going to have to reconsider our friendship." the shitting in a hat thing isn't helping.

Damn, you are all over the boards now.

 

[Bebe Girl]

LMAO!!!!

I feel weird saying that... I just think he would get the hint ya know? like how many times do you need to be shut down?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Well, if he can't take a hint, you'll have to set him directly like that with a straight face, and make yoru point very clear, in no uncertain terms. Otherwise you'll just have to put up with it.

 

[Bebe Girl]

Never.

 

[hamstershaver]

show me your tits

 

[d3track]

I have this one guy friend who CONSTANLY hits on me, and makes sexual comments.. I always dismiss EVERYTHING he says .. and shut him down.. its to the point where I dont even wanna talk to him becuase I dont like that... should I say something??

I mean I think he would get the hint ... like when he says "sit on my face" and I say NO GO SHIT IN A HAT!! you would think he would stop

dudes not much of a friend then

 

[Bebe Girl]

Just wants to bang me .. :rolleyes

 

[bran987]

shit in a hat? then what?

 

[Bebe Girl]

Jump off a cliff.

 

[SoKlueles]

tell him to fuck off and to go die in the street. i think thats what most men should do personally

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

tell him to fuck off and to go die in the street. i think thats what most men should do personally

Somehow I don't think I'd trust you with a knife, SoKlu.

bebe girl, you, along with pretty much every girl in America has been "programmed" so to speak, to never flat out reject a guy, because of their egos, and fear of the damaging effects a rejection could have on him. Because of guys' egos, this is why they can't take the hint. They think there will always be some shred of hope left(maybe if he treated her differently ). I feel sorry for this whole senario because the girl can never feel comfortable and the guy is too fucking stupid to let it go.
There should be a common ground of understanding between men and women, where if a girl truly doesn't like a guy at all, she should be able to say it to him and he should accept it. In a perfect world, maybe.

 

[jubei]

Talk to him and lay it on the line. Stop acting like a moron, or i won't give you the opportunity to embarass yourself any further.

 

[jubei]

what does orb mean?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

what does orb mean?

bro (like brother), backwards......

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

ALT F4

 

[jubei]

i think we've exhausted all the variations on bro now.

 

[lavi]

sup rob.

 

[Longhorn85]

I have this one guy friend who CONSTANLY hits on me, and makes sexual comments..

Why do you consider him a friend? Stop hanging around him unless you want to have sex with him.

 

[Gymgurl]

Oh please....just do him for god's sake and shut up lol

 

[Debaser]

Oh please....just do him for god's sake and shut up lol

You don't by chance live in the midwest do you?

Screw it, I'll commute.

 

[Gymgurl]

LOL....I did grow up in Nebraska....

 

[CrayonOfDoom2]

Maybe he's just kidding...