Serious Question for the Women of EF

[wayneboard1]

Ok ladies serious question here. My wife and I have a great sex life but after her first orgasm, if I have not cum yet she usually gets too sensitive to go on. She says it is so sensitive it almost hurts. I have never encountered this problem before I was married so I don't really know if it is that common or if there is anything I can do to help. Any SERIOUS replies are appreciated and K to you.

Well there you go bro, I told you these women on here would help. They are all pretty cool and dang smart not to mention frigin gorgeous. I have used those desensitizing condoms before and man, you could take a hammer to my pecker and I would not even flinch. They worked TOO well for me, and my "Little General" (he got promoted from Colonal when I got married) was semi numb for about 24 hours.

I love EF.

 

[EnderJE]

I've got sort of the same problem as you. So, if you ever find a sensitizing gel, let me know. Sure, going for hours SOUNDS like fun for the girl...until you actually do it.

 

[the_eq_kid]

my last girl was like that to after she came she was real sensitive first time it ever happened to me though but she was also the best out of all of them too

 

[aandd]

Just to clarify, she says it feels good, but it gets to the point where....well....she describes it as the most wonderful feeling ever then going to an exposed root canal between her legs. She laughs when she tells me about it because that makes it sound painful but it gets the point across. I get super sensitive when I cum, but it goes away in a few seconds. Hers stays for so long the sex is usually over with (or the intercourse anyways) when she gets that way. I have looked to see if they make a cream for woman similar to the desensitizing condoms trojan used too/still does make to make u go longer but have not had any luck as of yet. Thanks again!

Like I said, I know what she is talking about... and I know some other women who have had similar issues. I just am not able to ask what they did to try to solve the problem.

Well, you can try something like Anal-Eze which has Benzocaine in it. The only problem is that anything you RUB on her will be transferred to you and will prolong intercourse... which sounds like it won't be a good solution for your wife.

Another tactic may be to delay your wife's orgasm so that it coincides with yours. Use a lube instead of bringing her to orgasm to get her wet. Watch for cues and when she gets close, do what you would do when you got too close to orgasm too quickly. Ask her to work with you to time her orgasm with yours.

Other than that - I'd still have her speak to her OB/GYN.

 

[hamstershaver]

do like i do and cum before she does, problem solved

 

[rudeboyja]

I think your wife has the mentality of a dude. She gets hers and she's done...