Question for women. Do you like getting choked during sex?

[heatherrae]

OK Thanks. Good points to know.

I have been only pressing on the neck with my (large, thanks!) hand. That is not the correct way and i know it, but it was fun to watch her get uncomfortable just slightly. It was a turn on for her and me. I did not even get close to actually choking her that way. It was more the playing the role, dominating thing, when I was with her during intercourse or whatever we were doing.

Now knowing the correct procedure, we may try it.

One question: How do I know when to astart clamping down for the subsequent release just before orgasm? Is it on cue of her knowing when she's about to orgasm? That could get ttricky. Is it when she is actually orgasming... right at the very beginning?


Yeah, a lot of practice, I guess.

Thanks.


Also, I will still grab her neck the old way with one hand and wrap my fingers around it. Just to show her whose boss. You know...

lol

well, you do put your hand on the neck but sort of squeeze in on the carotid arteries, not on the trachea, that just is unpleasant and gives a sore throat afterwards...lol. She should give you whatever normal ques she gives when she is close to orgasm. About 30 seconds or so is all that is needed. If you do it much longer and are really pressing in the correct place, she will just black out and that isn't really the goal.




PS-- People can have underlying medical conditions that make the practice unsafe, so I'm not telling anyone to do these things.

 

[all the whey]

well, you do put your hand on the neck but sort of squeeze in on the carotid arteries, not on the trachea, that just is unpleasant and gives a sore throat afterwards...lol. She should give you whatever normal ques she gives when she is close to orgasm. About 30 seconds or so is all that is needed. If you do it much longer and are really pressing in the correct place, she will just black out and that isn't really the goal.




PS-- People can have underlying medical conditions that make the practice unsafe, so I'm not telling anyone to do these things.

It sounds like a lot of work with you barking out technical orders....


"Squeeze in on my carotid arteries. Not on the trachea!! That is unpleasant and gives me a sore throat!"

"I will give you my normal normal ques letting you know I am close to an orgasm. "

"Exactly, 30 seconds ONLY!!"


Boy, I bet your sex talk really puts a guy in the mood to make love.

 

[heatherrae]

It sounds like a lot of work with you barking out technical orders....


"Squeeze in on my carotid arteries. Not on the trachea!! That is unpleasant and gives me a sore throat!"

"I will give you my normal normal ques letting you know I am close to an orgasm. "

"Exactly, 30 seconds ONLY!!"


Boy, I bet your sex talk really puts a guy in the mood to make love.

LOL

Shut up! Be quiet! No talking!

 

[all the whey]

LOL

Shut up! Be quiet! No talking!

 

[heatherrae]

 

[bigbox]

Geez. Okay, let me explain something here. For those who like the choking thing, it is the restriction of blood flow to the brain right before orgasm that gives the really high euphoric feeling. All you need to do to her is restrict the arteries a bit on each side of the neck. If you are clamping down on her trachea, you are doing it wrong. Maybe she will like it if she just likes getting knocked around a bit, but it isn't the same thing at all.

Also, someone else mentioned a safeword. Probably the tap out thing is even better...lol...somewhat hard to talk while being choked and having an orgasm.

I'm not telling anyone to go out and do any of this. My luck would be that some idiot would choke his girl to death and then sue me for "advising" him to do so...lol. Practice at your own risk.

Well, if it's a safeword instead of tapping, at least she won't complain about it!!!

 

[KillahBee]

Honestly, I haven't met many in the past few years who don't love it. It's pretty much a regular part of the routine.

 

[Smurfy]

How is that done exactly? Please don't post a damn link for me to read. I just want to know if a lot of people do it and if it's really worth looking into as a form of the sexuals.

I do choke my roommate from time to time, but it's just self taught stuff, nothing I got training on or anything.

I grab her/his throat and squeeze slightly while the blowing and or sex or whatever, until they really can't take anymore.

I have big hands. thanks.


So, are they supposed to go right before passing out or is it done right before orgasm or what?!?

Frisky, post up!

I love it when my man puts his hand around my throat and gives a squeeze for a while - TOTAL turn on. Not hard enough that it actually hurts, or that Im actually losing oxygen - just strong enough that there's pressure and it's tight LOL

 

[boost_addict]

Honestly, I haven't met many in the past few years who don't love it. It's pretty much a regular part of the routine.

Werd!!!
My fiancee is the only girl ive ever met who liked it, and now its a regular thing Its an INSTANT turn on for her and me too, and sometimes it gets aggressive so ya, its good to have a tap or safeword lol

Practice safe choking