Question for women. Do you like getting choked during sex?

[all the whey]

Almost all the girls I went out with did. Most a firm grip around throat, being held down, pulling hair, etc. But, some like being seriously chocked.


Even kitteh knows that girls get excited when he says.....

 

[gonelifting]

I'd be more likely to punch you in the face than enjoy it.

lol Ummm, I'm not talking about killing you! wtf? Just a sexual thing. holy missionary Batman. Doesn't anyone venture out of the norm here?

Just holding your hand on her neck... not to HURT anyone. I hear it's exhilirating.

Well, anyway, I do it and never had a complaint. But... I never went too far as to get to that climax point or whatever the hell one would look for. I just did it for a quick moment while the banging and or blowjobous.

 

[ksharp01]

You didn't like it?

never done it and would never let anyone do it...people die from that shit and hell who wants to be knocked out when the orgasm comes?

 

[gonelifting]

pffft, whatever.

Slackers.


Y_Lifter. I'm fine with the breathing, but my hand huirts like hell. I just started doing a parrafin(sp?) bath where you stick your hand in a hot wax and let it stay on there for 15 minutes or so. It seems to sooth it. I definately recommend it to anyone who has dry or aching hands fingers, joints.... otc stuff you can buy at the drugstore.

Thanks!


Where are the real bitches?

lol @ someone punching you in the face if you did that. I really never had a problem. Never even duiscussed during or after... many times.. but again, i do NOT CHOKE too hard, just grab the damn neck people!!! Damn you people!

 

[gonelifting]

And I just reported every single poster on this thread! Including me.

 

[bigbox]

lol.........uhh, haven't people died doing the choking during sex shit??

What you're supposed to do, don't choke hard enough to make them pass out, just to restrict a little blood flow to the brain. She should have a safeword or something, like mine is I make her tap my shoulder three times right before she hits orgasm, then let go. Once you do that, she'll want to be choked everytime, but still only do it on special occasion!!! I did mess up the first time I tried it, an ex told me to choke her, so I did... but didn't realize there was a safeword or the tapping thing. It scared the hell out of me when she quit moving!!!

 

[mustang_00]

i accidently got the psycho chick i was fucking around with into that. She was giving me a handjob and leaned over and spit on my cock and started working it and out of nowhere i just zoned out and put my hand on her neck and squeezed. she'd just lean her neck back and let me do it. I noticed she'd get really wet from it and i'd have to do it to her when i was rubbing her clit. it's kinda scary doing shit like that when you're not used to freaky stuff but kinda cool.

couldn't something like this (being choked/held down) be related to some sort of rape fetish??? subconsciously or not???? or is it just "naughty" fun?

 

[billfred]

Everyone go read the novel "The General's Daughter" by Nelson Demille.

Good book and covers this topic in detail - as an accidental murder.

 

[Mikus]

pffft, whatever.

Slackers.


Y_Lifter. I'm fine with the breathing, but my hand huirts like hell. I just started doing a parrafin(sp?) bath where you stick your hand in a hot wax and let it stay on there for 15 minutes or so. It seems to sooth it. I definately recommend it to anyone who has dry or aching hands fingers, joints.... otc stuff you can buy at the drugstore.

Thanks!


Where are the real bitches?

lol @ someone punching you in the face if you did that. I really never had a problem. Never even duiscussed during or after... many times.. but again, i do NOT CHOKE too hard, just grab the damn neck people!!! Damn you people!

I think people are misunderstanding the whole concept you're bringing to the table. But just from my experience, and i'm not sure if it's just cause i attract psychotic women or what... but the women i've been scroggin lately seem to not enjoy sex unless they came out with a new bruise and sore trachea. And it's not like they expect me to choke them unconscience

 

[heatherrae]

Geez. Okay, let me explain something here. For those who like the choking thing, it is the restriction of blood flow to the brain right before orgasm that gives the really high euphoric feeling. All you need to do to her is restrict the arteries a bit on each side of the neck. If you are clamping down on her trachea, you are doing it wrong. Maybe she will like it if she just likes getting knocked around a bit, but it isn't the same thing at all.

Also, someone else mentioned a safeword. Probably the tap out thing is even better...lol...somewhat hard to talk while being choked and having an orgasm.

I'm not telling anyone to go out and do any of this. My luck would be that some idiot would choke his girl to death and then sue me for "advising" him to do so...lol. Practice at your own risk.