Like JavaGuru said...that's more of a personality issue. But at 26, most females are probably starting to come out of, or are already out of that stage women go through in their early 20s when they sleep around a fair amount and act like guys do at around 18. That said, I don't think a 26 year old female that is going after a 22 year old bouncer is out of that stage. No girl is going to talk to you on the phone for 7 hours if she's not interested in you, so it sounds like it's there for the taking. Do your duty as a 22 year old guy and knock it out one time in the name of SSME. Afterwards you can cuddle her and tell her that you were just experimenting to make sure you still didn't like women one time in the name of Nathan.