Married people and couples

[Cutiebaby]

I noticed in the thread below "how many times do you and your sig other have sex during the month" A lot of people are not getting it enough.
I wanted to be a bit nosy if I may and ask Why?
Is it due to opposite schedules or did the sex just fade away..And how long have ya'll been together..
Can I get some answers?

 

[immortalis]

been together off and on for 10 years... been married just over 1.


Somewhat conflicting schedules.

Getting tired a lot more as I am getting older.

Diminishing sex drive.

(I hope I dont get hella flamed for this one...)Men get "used" to the same shit, which is one reason why a lot of men cheat. Their desire to hit the same piece of ass diminishes over time.

We get horny at different times. She wants it at midnight, after weve usually already gotten high as hell, ate, and am tired as fuck. When I have to get up at 4:30... thats just a no-go. I want it in the mornings and afternoon a lot, and she doesnt.


A few more reasons im sure I could think of, but thinkin about this is already depressing enough lol.

 

[txbondsman]

she's a frigid BITCH! ( not really, she's just a bitch)
lets see,(1) she doesn't want it as much, she's on antidepressants (100 mg Zoloft ed), fucks with her libdo and it's very hard for her to cum. Only for sure way for her to cum is for me to give her oral and she doesn't let me unless she's just out of the shower, so if she doesn't think that she'll get her coookies, she doesn't want to have sex. BTW, I'm always up for oral... always. (2) HR said something on a thread that occures in my house, she is self concious of her body, younger she was 36D-22-34, but she's now 41 and things aren't as they once were. It bugs her. (3) we're both tired more, (4) we don't have the time or want to to go partying anymore, and she doesn't drink very often and I don't drink at all, what I mean is we're never drunk and horney anymore(5) refer to number 1...
how's that? discuss....

 

[txbondsman]

been together off and on for 10 years... been married just over 1.


Somewhat conflicting schedules.

Getting tired a lot more as I am getting older.

Diminishing sex drive.

(I hope I dont get hella flamed for this one...)Men get "used" to the same shit, which is one reason why a lot of men cheat. Their desire to hit the same piece of ass diminishes over time.

We get horny at different times. She wants it at midnight, after weve usually already gotten high as hell, ate, and am tired as fuck. When I have to get up at 4:30... thats just a no-go. I want it in the mornings and afternoon a lot, and she doesnt.


A few more reasons im sure I could think of, but thinkin about this is already depressing enough lol.

maybe we can trade Bro, your wifes schedule is mine, and my SO's is yours!

and he made a valid point, if you aren't open to new things, i.e. roll play, her dressing in new sexy lingere, new stuff....whatever that may be, same shit gets old. Rather catch O'relly and geta few extra winks...

 

[SpyWizard]

she's a frigid BITCH! ( not really, she's just a bitch)
lets see,(1) she doesn't want it as much, she's on antidepressants (100 mg Zoloft ed), fucks with her libdo and it's very hard for her to cum. Only for sure way for her to cum is for me to give her oral and she doesn't let me unless she's just out of the shower, so if she doesn't think that she'll get her coookies, she doesn't want to have sex. BTW, I'm always up for oral... always. (2) HR said something on a thread that occures in my house, she is self concious of her body, younger she was 36D-22-34, but she's now 41 and things aren't as they once were. It bugs her. (3) we're both tired more, (4) we don't have the time or want to to go partying anymore, and she doesn't drink very often and I don't drink at all, what I mean is we're never drunk and horney anymore(5) refer to number 1...
how's that? discuss....

bam.. we have a winner...

 

[txbondsman]

did I mention, bitching? bitching is SUCH a turn off. When we're laying in bed and I hear that GD bitching, complaining, it makes me want to just jump up and stick my big throbbing hardon in her mouth and yell, " DON'T TALK WITH YOUR MOUTH FULL...BIOTCH!!"
last time I did that the teeth marks lasted over a week. :-(

 

[thelion2005]

Never talk about "your day" in bed before sleeping. It kills sex.
As soon as you are together, get it on. Even quick, lazy married sex is OK.
I always had sex 1-2 times a day with this plan.

What killed sex as I got longer into marriage and got older was ... she and I were tired. We'd just fall asleep.

 

[Smurfy]

What killed sex as I got longer into marriage and got older was ... she and I were tired. We'd just fall asleep.

Exsactly. this happens to me a lot. Like last night for instance, I looked at my husband and thought to myself, YEAH - when we get into the bed tonight Im gonna get me some of THAT! but, I knew I had to wait until my son was asleep. SO I laid down on the couch to watch TV at 10:00 or so, and next thing I know, it's fucking 7:30am and Im waking up on the couch.

My first thought was GOD DAMNIT! I TOTALLY MISSED OUT ON HAVING SEX LAST NIGHT!

 

[needtogetaas]

been together off and on for 10 years... been married just over 1.


Somewhat conflicting schedules.

Getting tired a lot more as I am getting older.

Diminishing sex drive.

(I hope I dont get hella flamed for this one...)Men get "used" to the same shit, which is one reason why a lot of men cheat. Their desire to hit the same piece of ass diminishes over time.

We get horny at different times. She wants it at midnight, after weve usually already gotten high as hell, ate, and am tired as fuck. When I have to get up at 4:30... thats just a no-go. I want it in the mornings and afternoon a lot, and she doesnt.


A few more reasons im sure I could think of, but thinkin about this is already depressing enough lol.

right thats the part that fucking pisses me off.I want it in the morning or in the middle of the day..last time we did that.hmmmmm 1990 maybe...it always has to be right before she gose to bed or not at all.fuck that shit.

 

[needtogetaas]

did I mention, bitching? bitching is SUCH a turn off. When we're laying in bed and I hear that GD bitching, complaining, it makes me want to just jump up and stick my big throbbing hardon in her mouth and yell, " DON'T TALK WITH YOUR MOUTH FULL...BIOTCH!!"
last time I did that the teeth marks lasted over a week. :-(

right bitching is a huge turn off.I dont even want to look at my wife for hours after she has bin bitching.