If Spouses Would Keep the Vows Would There Be Divorces?

[Maccer101]

That is not the point of my statement, I was refering to the unhappyness derived from not wanting to be with that person, that should be very obvious if you had cared read the entire post carefully

 

[curling]

That is not the point of my statement, I was refering to the unhappyness derived from not wanting to be with that person, that should be very obvious if you had cared read the entire post carefully

Well why would you marry a person that you weren't happy with in the first place? That is stupid.

Also are you saying in your duragoraty comment about the creator that you created the ground you walk on, the legs you walk with, the air you breath, the heart that pump the blood to the brain you think with and fingers you type with? Just curious Mr Did All Myself Man?

 

[Maccer101]

Well why would you marry a person that you weren't happy with in the first place? That is stupid.

Also are you saying in your duragoraty comment about the creator that you created the ground you walk on, the legs you walk with, the air you breath, the heart that pump the blood to the brain you think with and fingers you type with? Just curious Mr Did All Myself Man?

The Big Bang & evloution are the reason for my existance, that is my belief and I am entitled to it just as you are to yours, I also have freedom of expression. My sig. is a retort to all those who thank God for whatever good happens in their life, instead of giving themselves a pat on the back for their own good efforts.

No doubt you will find a line in the post to twist round inorder to satisfy your godly sense of self importance.

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

I am with Curling on this, the question is

IF PEOPLE HONORED THEIR VOWS WOULD THERE BE LESS DIVORCE..

Yes, if you honor your vow to love your spouse through good and bad up and down ... forsaking all others...
there would be less divorce.

Your ability to honor those vows comes down to Morals and Character in my humble opinion.

 

[curling]

Well if you don't believe in Him why did you capitolize His name? The big bang theory huh? How do you make a sarcastic smiley face well insert one here ____.

God is the reason for everything bro if there wasn't for him you would have nothing to work with.

sh4dowf4lcon,

It all boils down to character and morals dude. And they are fading fast in this country.

 

[Maccer101]

I told you you would find some small detail to twist round, like I said you can believe in what you want but don't try to make others believe, am I trying to push atheism on you? I just stated my beliefs and left it at that.

Character and morals have nothing to do with religon, they are to do with the person and their upbringing, you don't need to believe in god (UNCAPITALISED just the way you want it) to know the difference between right & wrong. If religion made people good then whats the deal with these Paedophile Priests, the Crusades, murder of the Native americans by good god fearing white people, slavery, spanish inquisition, and more recently the murder/manslaughter of that young Authistic kid who was suffocated whilst trying to rid him of his demons? and before you quote atrocities committed by atheists thats not the point I'm making is it.

also I don't live in the US so the last bit of you post makes no sense.

I don't want this to end up as a 20 page thread so just do the christian thing, turn the other cheek and forgive me for my terrible sins.

 

[curling]

I told you you would find some small detail to twist round, like I said you can believe in what you want but don't try to make others believe, am I trying to push atheism on you? I just stated my beliefs and left it at that.

Character and morals have nothing to do with religon, they are to do with the person and their upbringing, you don't need to believe in god (UNCAPITALISED just the way you want it) to know the difference between right & wrong. If religion made people good then whats the deal with these Paedophile Priests, the Crusades, murder of the Native americans by good god fearing white people, slavery, spanish inquisition, and more recently the murder/manslaughter of that young Authistic kid who was suffocated whilst trying to rid him of his demons? and before you quote atrocities committed by atheists thats not the point I'm making is it.

also I don't live in the US so the last bit of you post makes no sense.

I don't want this to end up as a 20 page thread so just do the christian thing, turn the other cheek and forgive me for my terrible sins.

I can't forgive sins only God can. But one comment about morals. Isn't is strange how most of the rules we live by are found in the Bible? I mean if we came from the big bang theory who cares what you do in this life. I mean cheat on your taxes, spouse, cheat anyone you can to make your life more pleasurable here.

 

[Maccer101]

You are one freaky mofo Curling, I think the rules on not killing other people were around b4 the bible was written (e.g pagan law, Greek law, etc) and you still haven't answered me on why holy people have committed such terrible crimes if they were so committed to god. Al Queda are TOTALLY committed to god and aren't they a lovely bunch of people, and guess what ,the book that they read (which is older than the bible by the way) also says not to kill, in fact most of the don't do's are all the same.

The Bible is a rule book of life which was used to control people before there were adequate law & order institutions, thats why heaven and hell were created because there were no prisons, if you make someone believe in Hell they are less likely to commit a crime, its not because they became a better person they just didn't want to go to hell.

I believe that there is no real reason for us being here (apart from the laws of nature), but that doesn't mean that we can't make our own reasons for living, I also believe in law & order, inorder that everyone may have a nicer fairer life . There is no intrinsic fair/unfair right or wrong in nature (of which we are a part of) but we have evloved as social beings, and as social beings we have rules that govern our behavour, this is why we feel guilt and remorse when we do something wrong, this emotional programming of the brain is part of us, so I don't believe that we were all uncontrollable killers up until the point that someone wrote what is now the bible.

If you are going to make another post please try to construct a meaningful argument against what I am saying instead of just posting religious rhetoric. I have responded to your words why can you not respond to mine?

Yours sincerely Mr Did it all myself man

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

Al Queda are TOTALLY committed to god and aren't they a lovely bunch of people, and guess what ,the book that they read (which is older than the bible by the way) also says not to kill, in fact most of the don't do's are all the same.
I believe that there is no real reason for us being here (apart from the laws of nature), but that doesn't mean that we can't make our own reasons for living, I also believe in law & order, inorder that everyone may have a nicer fairer life .
There is no intrinsic fair/unfair right or wrong in nature (of which we are a part of) but we have evloved as social beings, and as social beings we have rules that govern our behavour, this is why we feel guilt and remorse when we do something wrong, this emotional programming of the brain is part of us, so I don't believe that we were all uncontrollable killers up until the point that someone wrote what is now the bible.
If you are going to make another post please try to construct a meaningful argument against what I am saying instead of just posting religious rhetoric. I have responded to your words why can you not respond to mine?

Dude, your post is off topic. The thread is about wedding Vows not whether or not Al Queada Killers are good people with good character. Who cares if their "Book" is older than the Bible? Who said anything about uncontrollable killers???You seem to be ignorant and
your comments are definately off topic. piss off!