I don't think they are trying to persecute you but help you get a plan. I have not read the shadow plan but have read many of Shadow's post and he gives great advice and is extremely helpful.
I have 4 children and a husband to cook for. They do not eat what I eat. I make my meals seperately. If I do not have time to cook for myself, I just have a protein shake. I agree with the others that the diet is extremely important. When I joined the gym I gained 10 lbs. I didn't start changing my body until I changed my diet and started lifting more weights and less cardio.
I always lift weights first then do cardio.
Don't let the guys at the gym intimidate you. I see it all the time. The new girls in our gym are nervous around us. But anyone in my group would answer questions or help them. I am definitely considered a meathead. Don't let them hold you back from your goals.
Your food looks good to me but my food plan is not perfect. Is your dinner after your workout? Post workout meal is the best time for rice or pasta. You are better off with brown rice and whole wheat pasta.
Good luck!
Claire
I have 4 children and a husband to cook for. They do not eat what I eat. I make my meals seperately. If I do not have time to cook for myself, I just have a protein shake. I agree with the others that the diet is extremely important. When I joined the gym I gained 10 lbs. I didn't start changing my body until I changed my diet and started lifting more weights and less cardio.
I always lift weights first then do cardio.
Don't let the guys at the gym intimidate you. I see it all the time. The new girls in our gym are nervous around us. But anyone in my group would answer questions or help them. I am definitely considered a meathead. Don't let them hold you back from your goals.
Your food looks good to me but my food plan is not perfect. Is your dinner after your workout? Post workout meal is the best time for rice or pasta. You are better off with brown rice and whole wheat pasta.
Good luck!
Claire