Help for a friend and an update kinda

[Gymgurl]

I posted this is C&C last week or so...but you guys have way more advice then the men lol.....My friend was seeing this guy and she was crazy about him ...everything was great...he was telling her he was falling in love with her..blah blah blah...then he stoped calling as much , acted different, basically called it off and wanted to be friends. So she went with that was really really hurt but stoped calling and emailing him....so catch this

He leaves a message on her cell friday "looks like you have already forgotten about me"...well now they have talked and he is acting like he is crazy about her all over again and wants to spend some time with her.....what should I tell her...... glad I don't have to worry about the dating scene anymore

 

[*MissFit*]

he had someone else in mind.. and then decided against it

 

[jenscats5]

he had someone else in mind.. and then decided against it

Sounds like that or the other girl lost interest in him....... Take it slow if she's really interested & keep her distance..... if he cools off again suddenly, drop him....

 

[velvett]

^what they said

 

[Daisy_]

yeah, I agree with them too. Is she still head over heals for this guy ?

 

[Daisy_Girl]

I agree with the above. Sounds like he had another choice, she blew him off, and now he is coming back around.

If i were your friend, I would take it SLOOOOOOOOOW and see if this guy is for real.

 

[*Bunny*]

Sounds like that or the other girl lost interest in him....... Take it slow if she's really interested & keep her distance..... if he cools off again suddenly, drop him....

If this is the case I would wonder why she wasn't his 1st choice in the first place, ya know? That would bother me...

 

[Sassy69]

Ditto.

 

[Gymgurl]

I always wondered if he was married or had a live in gf...she only has his cell since he claims it is the best way to get to him and has never seen his house...mind you he is 43 never married, no kids

 

[jenscats5]

If this is the case I would wonder why she wasn't his 1st choice in the first place, ya know? That would bother me...

Oh yeah, definitely -- that would bother me too...... but if, for some reason, she is still interested in him, keep the expectations low....

43 & never married????

Red flag there!