The Dude
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darren said:This is psychological. I had this happen when I was a virgin the first times I tried to have sex. First thing is he need to not plan (stress) on having sex on a particular night. Then, if the chick goes down on him it helps 100%. I can't reccommend this knowing what's out there, but I found it impossible to use a condom until after I'd successfully banged without one several times. It messes up the flow trying to put one on. It causes you to "know" you are having sex, without letting it happen naturally.
That sounds like your own little psychological problem. It's also a bad idea to forgo a condom the first few times. It's too easy to find yourself with a kid or a disease. Those things usually don't just go away.