Going to be a long holdiday season for me

[*MissFit*]

hey

 

[sigweed]

wow thats horrible man

you gotta do us all a favour though. In 5 months when she dumps this dude because she realizes what a loser he is and comes crying back to you, slam the door in her face and tell her to piss off

 

[swaptrex]

I feel very bad for you...really. But I do agree with GYMGIRL...there was something lacking, something within her that you could just not solve. No matter what you could say or do, you have to remember that it is not you it's her. You sound like an amazing BF who did all he could to keep it going, but sometimes no matter what you do it's never enough.

Keep your head up and in time it will pass. You will never forget her or the relationship, that is a given, but you will find someone else eventually. The next person may be even better than what you had before. Best wishes!

good advice.

 

[AMGETR]

I feel very bad for you...really. But I do agree with GYMGIRL...there was something lacking, something within her that you could just not solve. No matter what you could say or do, you have to remember that it is not you it's her. You sound like an amazing BF who did all he could to keep it going, but sometimes no matter what you do it's never enough.

Keep your head up and in time it will pass. You will never forget her or the relationship, that is a given, but you will find someone else eventually. The next person may be even better than what you had before. Best wishes!

Thank you. But I don't see a bright day to this. She was my sunshine per se. Every day is a rainy day for me now.

 

[carlsuen]

karma.. everyone uses it so lightly on others.. but does everyone actually understand the concept or the meaning of it? when we say karma.. we think if u do good, u get good. u do bad, u get bad.. true..

in your case.. did u ever think that u might have done something in your past(be honest here) to deserve this? if not? let me tell u that the acumulation of karma is not within a life time.. but it maybe retribution from your past life.. yes it may sound a lil crappy and far fetched.. karma is not logical.. it is only winning or losing to karma.. ur choice to overcome and change this karma of yours or to stick with it and get hurt by it again..

so what am i trying to say here? when u realise that u cannot change what is coming to u, u work towards constructing a solid inner world in u.. y? cuz when shit starts to hit u.. u r strong and able to take the shit.. u r able to just shrug it off and not let it affect u..

seeking happiness from a source outside of u is called relative happiness.. it never last.. cuz it's not permanent.. the only way to seek happiness, is to seek and look within ur self.. only u can give ur self happiness.. i'm not implying that u don't date other ppl anymore.. but that u should never seek happiness from an external source.. happiness is from within.. when u feel empowered by the fact that nothing in the world can affect u or make u feel weak(not meaning that u should be cold hearted, we are humans after all).. u know that u can be happy no matter the circumstances.. taht's absolute happiness which lasts forever..

so i'm not gonna give u karma.. i'm giving u hope instead.. ask me anything if u want.. or anything u don't understand.. i'm not a love expert or something like that.. but this is what i have learnt from buddhism..

 

[*MissFit*]

Thank you. But I don't see a bright day to this. She was my sunshine per se. Every day is a rainy day for me now.

hun no horrible way of thinking.. she put u thru hell no sunshine