Phatchik, The last sentence of your post is exactly why I do not remain friends with an ex. It's just a matter of time before one of you gets involved with another and for me i'd prefer not to know about it. It sux but so does life sometimes. It's hard to move on after loving someone, but everything happens for a reason. There is someone more suited for you out there and your lucky that you didn't end up w/that person because it obviously wasn't meant to be. I know its hard but staying tied to that situation is only going to hurt later. I respect a woman who doesn't have ex's calling and hanging on. I would feel disrespected if an ex called my girl, just doesn't sit well w/me. Good Luck.