Do you get along with your ex?

[Y_lifter]

GKing, I think I matters who ended for the most part for a lot of Guys as to how you feel about them afterwards.


I broke it off with my last GF before I got married and hurt her.
We get along OK. Woman are more forgiving in General than Men.

I was Screwed over by another long relationship GF and I never wanted to see her again.
Funny thing is, she came crawling back after 6 mos and I had the pleasure of telling her to go Piss up a rope..

If it helps, picture her miserable, living in a Run down shack with 6 kids and a lazy lawn mowin puttz for a Man..

 

[takniteasy]

Lot of woman bashing here So for what it is worth, I dont get along with my ex. And for all the crap he burned me with is coming back around and biting him in the a$$! Now I have the pleasure of watching what goes around comes around!

 

[Y_lifter]

Lot of woman bashing here

I re-Read all the responses and I disagree that there was ANY WOMAN bashing in general at all.

There is some specific individual Woman bashing, but given the circumstances that we don't know about, it appears KGing is venting at her, not all women...

 

[bwood]

how was mine taken as bashing?

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I re-Read all the responses and I disagree that there was ANY WOMAN bashing in general at all.

There is some specific individual Woman bashing, but given the circumstances that we don't know about, it appears KGing is venting at her, not all women...

i guess she has never read frackal and my threads when we get fired up.

 

[sigweed]

depends on the relationship you had and how it ended. If you had a good, loving relationship based on more than sex that ended for reasons other than cheating or betrayal, then you would probably still talk to you ex. That's how it is with me. Her and I still talk all the time, and I still think she's an awesome girl and know she's going many many places in life. Would i go out with her again? Probably not, because she's no longer my type and i'm happy with someone else, but I still talk to her all the time.

 

[manny78]

I cant say the same about my ex(s), even if I never remained friend with them. We broke up in a civilized manner. If they call me, then I'll talk to them. No problem.

 

[HighGrade]

GenetiKing, you have some pretty strong feelings for her... if she can still piss yah off. If you don't care, don't waste your energy. Save it for yourself, and a new relationship if you so choose.

Funny how things work out- My ex- called me 2 months after we broke up, telling me how much he still cared, how I was the 'one' he wanted to spend the rest of his life with... yadda yadda... Funny thing- I caught him the next day at the mall with another woman. I confronted him then and there.. grabbed his arm and excused him from his 'date'. I really gave him a piece of my mind, told him what a P.O.S he was... he whined it was not the time nor place... I disagreed... The mall onlookers (and his date) got quite an earful, and I even had a few people clap and woohoo for me I never spoke to him again... and am very happy that I never looked back! I still get a 'blocked call' every now and then... LMAO

 

[GenetiKing]

GenetiKing, you have some pretty strong feelings for her... if she can still piss yah off. If you don't care, don't waste your energy. Save it for yourself, and a new relationship if you so choose.

Well, that's just it. I was rather indifferent to her and her situation for the longest time. So when I was presented with the opportunity to make conversation with her, I felt the best thing to do was be cordial, polite, and act like I'm actually interested in her life with the *snicker* lawn-mower. BTW, I have been in several relationships since her and I'm currently in another (if a fuck buddy counts as a "relationship").

I wasn't an ass at all. I fact, I was very nice and told her that I was happy she found a job using her degree, blah, blah, blah...

Up until that point I had let go of any hard feelings I had for her. I just didn't care anymore.

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.

But I have to admit that it pissed me off when she thought I still gave a rat's ass about her opinion of my relationship with my family. In fact, what really pissed her off was when she asked me about any girls I've had sex with since she and I broke up. So I told her truth. Yeah, I've fucked several ho's since her...why should I lie? I didn't ask the question...she did. So, in order to come back at me with something she has to offer me her opinion about my family.

Is she so arrogant as to think I care what she thinks at this point? That's what pisses me off.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Funny how things work out- My ex- called me 2 months after we broke up, telling me how much he still cared, how I was the 'one' he wanted to spend the rest of his life with... yadda yadda... Funny thing- I caught him the next day at the mall with another woman. I confronted him then and there.. grabbed his arm and excused him from his 'date'. I really gave him a piece of my mind, told him what a P.O.S he was... he whined it was not the time nor place... I disagreed... The mall onlookers (and his date) got quite an earful, and I even had a few people clap and woohoo for me I never spoke to him again... and am very happy that I never looked back! I still get a 'blocked call' every now and then... LMAO

wow, talk about a scumbag. i mean your ex.