Dude My current g/f of 5 months now had a BF for 1 and 1/2 yrs, granted he lived outta town for atleast 1/2 of the relationship... but who cares, she was a virgin when we met and there was still lots of drama with her ex always trying to get in shit... luckily I am a trained MMA and he knew it so it never came to blows thank God... Yea I know everyone is thinkin yea right a virgin, hey but some girls value and respect themselves... not putting anyone down, just saying i respect her for that. Anyway Shes a great girl, love her to death, but drama comes bro be prepared. If he isn't taking care of home somebody else will.... whats old to you is new to the next man. just treat her right