your attitude towards members of the opposite sex with a significant other?

[ChefWide]

Men are genetically programmed to spread our seed far and wide. Cheating is in our nature.

ahhhh... Horseshit.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

If the girl's happy, cheating will be the furthest thing from her mind, plain and simple. Her happiness is what's important, but as far as I'm concerned it's up to her to drop the current guy before another moves in on her...and this happens very gradually. Getting dumped is bad enough, but cheating on someone is far worse.

 

[bigmann245]

listen, if a girl will cheat on her man or a guy cheat on his woman then they will most likely do the same thing to you in the future. i never went with a woman the had a bf or husband. the only thing goes through my mind is i dont want to be that other guy and that is exactly what i would be if she left him and went with me.

 

[nycgirl]

If the girl's happy, cheating will be the furthest thing from her mind, plain and simple. Her happiness is what's important, but as far as I'm concerned it's up to her to drop the current guy before another moves in on her. Getting dumped is bad enough, but cheating on someone is far worse.

Cheating should be the farthest thing from your mind whether you are happy or not. If you are not happy, end the relationship first. Before you move on to something else, make sure it is over and all loose ends are tied up.

When I pursue someone, I'm 100% available. There's no sneaking around. You can call me, see me, etc. anytime. There are no grey areas with me. And I expect the same from him.

 

[bigmann245]

Cheating should be the farthest thing from your mind whether you are happy or not. If you are not happy, end the relationship first. Before you move on to something else, make sure it is over and all loose ends are tied up.

When I pursue someone, I'm 100% available. There's no sneaking around. You can call me, see me, etc. anytime. There are no grey areas with me. And I expect the same from him.

exactly... i agree 100% with this. its all about being truthful. without that the relationship is doomed to failure.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

I pretty much ignore em.

 

[ziggyziggy]

I always ask women of they are single when I am interested. If they lie, that's on them. If I know that a woman is attached, I stay away. I don't need the drama of a pissed off SO coming into my life. Besides, there are plenty out there who are single, and a woman who cheats once will do it again ... probably to you.

Zig

 

[pdaddy]

Men are genetically programmed to spread our seed far and wide. Cheating is in our nature.

Speak for yourself, I have never cheated on a girlfriend. I am highly opposed to cheating because I know how detrimental it would be for me to find my partner cheating. How would you like some guy macking on your girlfriend? To say it's in our nature is rediculous.