I see where you're coming from, but firmly disagree. Yes, there is a good chance none of them will be of any consequence to me in my future, but I spent 4 years with these kids and i've definitely forged some really close friendships with people i'll hopefully be in touch with for the rest of my life. Good times and happy memories definitely mean shit. Also, even though your second sentence is pretty irrelevant i am focusing on what i want. I got into my #1 choice college and also received a scholarship from them. I lift for fun and definitely do take it pretty seriously, but having a subpar session isn't going to ruin my day. Sorry you didn't make the best choices right after high school, but you live and learn right? What are you up to now?