@ EM- I don't think 1 top set is enough for me for benching.... I also want to train in higher rep ranges/multiple sets for military and squats and deads.
This is what I have been trying to explain to you, Josh. Doing just one top set has a lot of disadvantages.
People make a big deal about training in the 90%+ range but I train in that range almost week in and week out and I have not been getting weaker at all.
Eat, sleep, lift heavy.
Also, you have to understand that the more able you are to hit 90%+ of your maxes for reps and multiple sets, the EASIER your 1RM becomes which means that is the LEAST you will be able to hit even on a bad day. Once you achieve such a strong position, you can go on to set multiple PRs in terms of your 1RM and continue to progress onwards.
For example, lets take Deadlifts because that is one exercise whose passion I share in common with you.
Lets say my Deadlift is 100, ok?
Lets say that over the course of 4 weeks I manage to take this Deadlift from 90x1 to 90x3x3. Now, I am able to hit 100 on even a bad day when I feel off or something, alright?
So, I run a Consolidation Cycle so that I can basically consolidate where I stand. This basically results in:
Week 1: 90x1x10
Week 2: 90x2x8
Week 3: 90x3x7
Week 4: 90x4x2
So I basically too my 90x3x3 and made it into 90x3x7. Think about that in terms of percentages. That over a 100% increase in workload. Is 100 my true max? Probably not.
So, I then proceed to do some volume training to use this consolidation to improve my current standing. Lets say I do Poliquin's 5/2 Modified:
Week 1: 90x1, 80x5, 95x1, 85x5, 100x1
Week 2: 95x1, 85x5, 100x1, 90x5, 105x1
Week 3: 100x1, 90x5, 105x1, 95x5, 110x1
Week 4: 100x2x2
I have broken past my 100 PR by 10 lbs in such a short while.
Next, I run a Single Scene Cycle to basically prep myself for some massive PRs:
Week 1: 6-8 Singles @ 90%+ where I hit 110x1 once
Week 2: 5-7 Singles @ 90%+ where I hit 110x1 twice
Week 3: 9-11 Singles @ 90%+ where I hit 115x1 once and 110x1 twice
Week 4: 2-4 Singles @ 90%+ where I hit 120x1 and 125x1
So basically, I increased my Deadlift from 100 to 125 in basically 12-16 weeks. thats basically 1.25 lbs per week.
However, I am now able to hit 125x1 at any given time. Unlike before where I was struggling with 100x1, I can now hit 125x1 even on a bad bad day. It's a SOLID one rep max.
Anyways, I hope you find a program that works for you. Don't hop around so much though...just train and figure out what works. For example, the idea of having one key lift per day is really good:
Deadlifts
Military Press
Squats
Bench Press
So use that and figure out how to arrange lifts within those days to optimize your progress
Good luck!