Why Do I Scare People Away?

[barnidge]

Thanks George. You're a good bro.

 

[georgie24]

Thanks George. You're a good bro.

no problem barnidge

 

[paradox]

Lets face it my man, deep down you want to scare people away, & most people are intuitive enough to pick up on that.

 

[georgie24]

Lets face it my man, deep down you want to scare people away, & most people are intuitive enough to pick up on that.

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wait a minute man, thats a low blow you know dick about him or his situation. it can be other things too. your way off basr here pal!

oh and that thread you started about karma? this is a sure fire way to get bad karma, FYI

 

[paradox]

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wait a minute man, thats a low blow you know dick about him or his situation. it can be other things too. your way off basr here pal!

oh and that thread you started about karma? this is a sure fire way to get bad karma, FYI

1. Sometimes people send out signals that even they themselves arent even aware of. Like in his case.

2. Is the threat of me getting bad karma suppose to make me bite my tongue instead of stateing my opinion & facts at hand?

3. Please try & write like you actually attended one or two years of grade school, even if it was for the mentally impaired.

 

[Mysterio]

Okay, so here it goes, I am 6'5" 220lbs and all my friends tell me the same thing: That they felt intimidated by me before they knew me. Now, I do not consciously do anything to intimidate people so I questioned more and they said that I have a strut that says to other people "I don't give a fuck". Now how can I change myself without changing my size to make me more approachable. I feel that I can scare off potential partners that way.

SMILE!!!!!!

 

[Grizzly]

thanks for catching my typo,

btw dont take me personal its a matter of opinions and thoughts thats all. i just used you as an example

That's cool. Well, I'm still curious as to what the hell that first paragraph says, but I'm also curious as to what the point of the whole thing is. What was the point?

I did notice one thing that is completely wrong, though.
"so my point is you dont have to be a certain weight to be considered heavy. " You don't? Tell me a dude who weighs 135 is heavy.

 

[Robert Jan]

i have a friend like that who always scares peeps while hes really a very calm, even shy guy.

hes like 7"0 and has been since he was 12, i dont know the name of that syndrome but he then had certain shots taken to close his growth plates which gave some sides like body hair (at age 12....) a deep voice etc.
hes like 17 now, still 7"0 and bald shaved head and pretty big. people tend to just walk off when he comes around. hes actually very shy, scared even. when a guy at the ballcourt came to play, even a pretty short small guy, the guy took a shot with his ball and he was just like, "oh, you want my ball... well.... ok then"
and went to the other side of the court. very very pathetic..........

hes got some issues i hope he turns out right.

 

[havoc]

An excellent question: I have had to cope with this same scenario for a while, it sucks, its instant stereotype.
I have learned that the only way a person will not view you in a negative fashion in respects to this situation is that person actually getting to know you. I cannot tell you how many times people said to me "you are such a nice guy, I would of never thought that". Just be yourself my friend, treat others how you would like to be treated, if they respond in a negative fashion for no reason whatsoever then that is there fault, not yours, good luck. peace

 

[fistfullofsteel]

grow your hair out like michael bolton and everybody will think you are a pussy and love ya.