The Bible vs. Sex

[H_T_]

On occasion, I'd agree.

i'd agree with the Skee-Ball theory...

 

[redguru]

i'd agree with the Skee-Ball theory...

Bank it off the rails as you roll up. you can ring the 50 hole every time.

 

[healother]

Update:

I'm still struggling with this. The other day when I was grinding with girls at the club my conscience was bothering me later.

I know this may sound odd, and many of you think I should be able to be sexual and not feel guilty about it. But since I'm a Christian I think I'm always going to feel guilty to some degree about sex.
Unless, if I became married then I wouldnt. But that wouldnt make any sense, since I dont even want marriage right now.

It's tough to be physical with women, because I've noticed they ask me why I'm nervous while I'm dancing with them. Or awhile back when I tried being physical with that one girl but felt uncomfortable at the same time. She picked up on it and said that was why she stopped giving me the handjob.

I dont know if I'm ever going to be able to shake the guilt when it comes to being physical with a woman before i'm married with her.

I guess I can try to just forget about my guilt and continue to try to progress sexually with women, But will the guilt ever go away? Or am I stuck with it forever?

Will I ever be normal with my sexual development? (normal: being able to have premarital sex without guilt) I get the vibe that other Christians in America are able to have sex and not worry about it. I just want to be comfortable doing these things with women.

But if I never feel completely comfortable, then I guess I gotta explain that part of me to women, every time I am with one of them
But what are they gonna think or say when they discover I have moral conflicts?

I just want to choose to be sexual, and try the hardest I can to not feel guilty about it.

 

[samoth]

Update:

I'm still struggling with this.

No. Fucking. Shit.

Please killself immediately.

 

[WODIN]

I guess I can try to just forget about my guilt and continue to try to progress sexually with women, But will the guilt ever go away?

Or am I stuck with it forever?

You're a guilt lifer.

Will I ever be normal with my sexual development?
(normal: being able to have premarital sex without guilt) I get the vibe that other Christians in America are able to have sex and not worry about it. I just want to be comfortable doing these things with women.

Nope.

But if I never feel completely comfortable, then I guess I gotta explain that part of me to women, every time I am with one of them
But what are they gonna think or say when they discover I have moral conflicts?

Some will think its sweet. Some will laugh at you. Some might think I have a new toy. Some might even agree with your. OMG who gives a shit what other people think.

I just want to choose to be sexual, and try the hardest I can to not feel guilty about it.

Boy are you fucked

 

[cindylou]

Update:

I'm still struggling with this. The other day when I was grinding with girls at the club my conscience was bothering me later.

I know this may sound odd, and many of you think I should be able to be sexual and not feel guilty about it. But since I'm a Christian I think I'm always going to feel guilty to some degree about sex.
Unless, if I became married then I wouldnt. But that wouldnt make any sense, since I dont even want marriage right now.

It's tough to be physical with women, because I've noticed they ask me why I'm nervous while I'm dancing with them. Or awhile back when I tried being physical with that one girl but felt uncomfortable at the same time. She picked up on it and said that was why she stopped giving me the handjob.

I dont know if I'm ever going to be able to shake the guilt when it comes to being physical with a woman before i'm married with her.

I guess I can try to just forget about my guilt and continue to try to progress sexually with women, But will the guilt ever go away? Or am I stuck with it forever?

Will I ever be normal with my sexual development? (normal: being able to have premarital sex without guilt) I get the vibe that other Christians in America are able to have sex and not worry about it. I just want to be comfortable doing these things with women.

But if I never feel completely comfortable, then I guess I gotta explain that part of me to women, every time I am with one of them
But what are they gonna think or say when they discover I have moral conflicts?

I just want to choose to be sexual, and try the hardest I can to not feel guilty about it.

healother,

you are a tool.

 

[manny78]

Dude, you're such a fool....

 

[Gambino]

healother, obviously you are not prepared for sex or intimacy of any sort...maybe some light shit, like hand holding or check kissing.
but i really don't think you are mature enough to progress beyond that stage...you are too conflicted and i think guilt will overtake you if you did anything remotely sexual.
i look at your life from my computer screen and honestly it makes me a bit sad.
seeing a healthy young dude as yourself in such turmoil...bro some really good yrs are slipping by you while you over analyze everything. you don't seem happy, is that living a god's life?
do not have sex, repeat do not. the guilt will haunt you

 

[javaguru]

As others have said, the Bible is the last place to go for moral advice.

 

[Gambino]

As others have said, the Bible is the last place to go for moral advice.

is Duteronomy new or old testament?
pretty sick dude