So my gf asked me...

[UA_Iron]

You shouldnt have bragging rights till you used a fist as a penetration device.

 

[biteme]

lolol

thats as bad as when a guy asks if you've ever been with someone bigger or better than him


How in the hell do you answer that?

I wouldn't even ask that question because I know no man is better than me. I'm the best.

 

[biteme]

I'd just tell the truth. I don't have a problem with asking that. She might not like the answer, but at least I havent slept with any animals or a man.

 

[pintoca]

tell her,

"Bitch, I've been dating strippers and Porn Stars for I don't know how many years. If i don't remember the years, how would I remember the coochies?"

 

[slat1]

tell her,

"Bitch, I've been dating strippers and Porn Stars for I don't know how many years. If i don't remember the years, how would I remember the coochies?"

Its like you are in my head!

 

[Bikini Mod]

My rule of thumb for this: only admit to the ones that she could possibly find out about. That number will be bad enough in her eyes, but not so horrifying that it messes things up.

Unless the dude I am with is like 19, why would I be horrified is my lover had a life before he met me? (And I dont date younger men, let alone boys so that is not an option.)

Peeps are silly... honestly, just silly.

I would be horrified if I bedded a man that gave me any answer different than, "Babe, I honestly couldn't tell you."

Could you imagine being 50 years old and only having had sex with ONE person?

And yes, I would be VERY hesitant to bed a man that only had one woman because he was faithfully married to his wife of 30 years whom he married as a virgin. A lifetime commitment like that speaks volumes and I would honestly feel intimidated by it. Dont know if he could love me the way he did his late wife.

Being 100% straight up honest.

 

[mountain muscle]

Why the fuck does it matter how matter people she or he has been with?

 

[Forge]

Meh, I honestly don't see what the big deal is. I've never had a problem with "the question", I tell her the truth and expect it in return. The past is the past, but I like to know where my partner is coming from experience wise. I also have no problem talking about past encounters either. If you trust someone, then this topic shouldn't be taboo or off limits.

Who cares if she's been with one or one hundred, if I like her before the convresation then I'll like her afterwards. If she is inexperienced then I'll teach her a thing or two, and I've had women who have definately taught me a thing or two.



People make mountains out of molehills sometimes, think about what really matters in life...

 

[slat1]

The truth is probably good enough for a miniseries on HBO.
I am not telling until someone offers me big money.. LOL

 

[string_bean00]

That number is bullshit bor. Ive bagged 6 this year alone.

You gotta look at the whole picture, a lot of this board does far better than the average im sure, but look at the people you see in walmart at 4am, think they are banging more than a handful in their life? fuck no