I feel you. I have bad insomnia. All drugs like benedryl, tylenol pm keep me up even longer. The only way I can sleep is if i get totally hammered every night...aweful. Melotonin does not help either. I just got ambien, but you can only take it for a couple weeks. If anyone has any other suggestions let me know. I can totally relax, and be exhausted but my brain never shuts off.