Evan is right man. It took me over 6 months to realize that lesson. You may not see it right away but something good always comes from the bad. I was so depressed with my problems it's why I started spending 3 + hours in the gym. And because of that, I got in the best shape of my life and look better than ever. I'm shy as fuck and I go to clubs every weekend and girls come right up to me. That's just my example. I'm telling you, take that stress to the gym it will help you so much my brother