I think it is a little strange. You never just see your chick cooking or doing laundry and throw her ass down and just pound it? Are you ever at work and just get hard for no reason? You may have low test man.
Been with some women on 1st dates and would have thrown the bone to them immediately. Been with others that just didn't turn me on until it got more physical. Best is when you date someone and then you just have to think about them and boing!
ANd on occation, I do go to the kitchen and put it to the other half. Just not as often as when she 1st moved in. Ah, familiarity breeds contempt, and a boring sex life.