I answer some of his calls. If I don't answer, he keeps calling. Like this week-- he knows I leave for work just after 6 and get here by 6:30. He calls 3-8 times leaving vmail til I pick up. And he keeps crying too. It's really awful. It's not like I hate him or wish him harm, but I don't want to be with him. He treated me horribly for a loooong time. We were together for 2 years. His longest relationship prior was 6 weeks. It's his first breakup so I'm cutting him some slack...but it's still fucked up. On the phone I'm really cold and as soon as he gets upset or starts pleading, I tell him it's not up for discussion and I say goodbye.
I miss his friendship but I refuse to call him. I will not mess with his head. I've been VERY firm that I'm not going to change my mind. I'm moving on. I hope he will too.
Oh, and he knows I like girls. Hehe. He knows I left because he was lying to me and being awful. I don't trust him. I don't need to make up reasons, it was his fault and he admits that.