My fiance left me

[the.gladiator1987]

Ok So Im 20, shes 19. We dated for 4 1/2 years until we decided to get married. I proposed to her about a week ago but we were planning the wedding for June for the last couple months.

A couple days ago, we went into a counseling meeting and her parents were there. All of a sudden they say whats the rush, and my ex is saying that she feels that God is convicting her to not get married, and it would go against his will to get married. WTF? Then the counselors ask how im supporting her, and I said i had a job lined up, but everyone already knew I didnt have a job right away and we went on with the planning for the wedding.

Just kinda venting here, but a week after I propose and she says yes, she leaves me, kicks me out of her house, and doesnt talk to me. I know were done but any tips on how I can just not even think of her or get sad to think about her. I want to move on now and I know im young so everything is good, just what she did really hurt. Thanks everyone heres a pic of us

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a316/hehateme00000/meandgirlsexy.jpghttp://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a316/hehateme00000/meandgirlsexy.jpg

 

[princesa]

awww I'm sorry you are hurting right now but things will get better. Just keep yourself busy, do things that make you happy. Like you said you are young...you have plenty of time to get married. Good luck!

 

[Huffdawg44]

Dman bro that sucks, believe me its hard 2 get her out of your head, but u will, i've been through it and never thought she would leave my mind. U r young, go live your life and don't worry about the women the right 1 will come around. Trust me.

 

[drow]

Ya. i agree with the other posts. You are still young and there are alot of other girls out there bro. Obviously she wasnt the one for you. Get out and do some fun things to get your mind of her. Hell, go out and get a peice! That will really take your mind off her!

 

[SpyWizard]

Not to be flipant.. but .. bang her sister..

I always advise guys to not get married until they are 30yrs old, there are a lot of reasons for that..

You are young, your life before you, live and experience it. You got off lucky, you could have gotten her prego, and then kicked you but taking 30% of your pay for the next 18 yrs..

There's no figuring it out man.. The problem is for the last 4 yrs she is all you have had your life wrapped around.. let it be a lesson, let your schooling, or your job or something else other than a person be your center, that way you can have some sense of control and decisions on what your life is like...

Good luck, congrats and condolences.

 

[Thandie]

I'm so sorry! That hurts regardless of age or circumstances.
I know this won't be reassuring, but it will become apparent that you were fortunate NOT to marry her. Relationships end when is not the best choice for us.

For now, I'd say keep busy, work on something positive for your self (easier said then done, I know!) Try, just try not to get involve with anyone on rebound. This will only condition you to rebound in order to take the pain away from a brake up, and form a habit. I promise you, if you do that, it will get easier to handle in the future.
Be good!!

 

[lartinos]

it's for the best

 

[nangiggles]

Think about her.... mourn her..... get it over with.... if you ¨keep busy¨, date other women, etc you will just be repressing your feelings, which believe me will eventually bite you in the ass and have the potential to ruin future relationships, I´m not saying you should soke in tears, burn a candle to her pics and try to brake into her voicemail I just mean don´t try ignoring the issue.... don´t get a rebound girl... but don´t say no to new oportunities just keep an open mind... it will pas, time going by and the sense of knowing you did everything right and everything you could on your side will eventually give you peace of mind

 

[PICK3]

Your girl looks like Vanessa Hudgens

just sayin'

 

[Thandie]

think about her.... Mourn her..... Get it over with.... If you ¨keep busy¨, date other women, etc you will just be repressing your feelings, which believe me will eventually bite you in the ass and have the potential to ruin future relationships, i´m not saying you should soke in tears, burn a candle to her pics and try to brake into her voicemail i just mean don´t try ignoring the issue.... Don´t get a rebound girl... But don´t say no to new oportunities just keep an open mind... It will pas, time going by and the sense of knowing you did everything right and everything you could on your side will eventually give you peace of mind

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