Most awesome post JJFigure!! That's the best damn post pertaining directly to women I've ever read!! I enjoyed reading others' responses to it as well!
I wish I would've been able to read something like this when I first decided I wanted to look like a fitness competitor, might have saved me some agony. Eh, then again, I lie, I'm the stubborn type and probably would've had to learn the hard way anyway, lol.
But here is what I learned thru all this dieting, as I was trying to get down to 12% body fat (which never happened)...
I've learned that my genetic setpoint is 18% body fat, bottom line. My body absolutely REFUSES to go below that without a fight. And even to maintain here at 18%, I eat pretty darn close to if I was on a cutting diet. I eat clean and maintain about a 40%P/30%C/30%F diet. The only difference really, is that I don't count my calories, I pretty much let my appetite dictate but I do control the portions. To get below 18% body fat I basically have to fight my body tooth and nail. I did get down to 15%, I can do that in about 3-4 weeks by cutting my calories but then I basically have to live being hungry ALL THE TIME (and friggin starve the first 2 weeks), just to maintain that! It really sucks, who wants to live the rest of their life like that? Not me, so for me, under 18% body fat is unrealistic to maintain. Unfortunately my genetics will not allow me to be under 18% body fat. Those of you who can maintain under 18% with no problem, as in not having to count calories and such, are very lucky, your genetics obviously allow you to do that (of course I'm talking natural without any chemical help).
So anyway, great subject! We women really do need to learn to be happy with our bodies the way they are, like it was said before, our bodies are MEANT to carry more body fat than men. We were not designed to be that lean. It's difficult though, I'd love to have more definition in my abs and legs but I have to try and talk myself into being satisfied with how I look now cause it's either that or fight with my body the rest of my life! And I certainly don't want that either.
I wish I would've been able to read something like this when I first decided I wanted to look like a fitness competitor, might have saved me some agony. Eh, then again, I lie, I'm the stubborn type and probably would've had to learn the hard way anyway, lol.
But here is what I learned thru all this dieting, as I was trying to get down to 12% body fat (which never happened)...
I've learned that my genetic setpoint is 18% body fat, bottom line. My body absolutely REFUSES to go below that without a fight. And even to maintain here at 18%, I eat pretty darn close to if I was on a cutting diet. I eat clean and maintain about a 40%P/30%C/30%F diet. The only difference really, is that I don't count my calories, I pretty much let my appetite dictate but I do control the portions. To get below 18% body fat I basically have to fight my body tooth and nail. I did get down to 15%, I can do that in about 3-4 weeks by cutting my calories but then I basically have to live being hungry ALL THE TIME (and friggin starve the first 2 weeks), just to maintain that! It really sucks, who wants to live the rest of their life like that? Not me, so for me, under 18% body fat is unrealistic to maintain. Unfortunately my genetics will not allow me to be under 18% body fat. Those of you who can maintain under 18% with no problem, as in not having to count calories and such, are very lucky, your genetics obviously allow you to do that (of course I'm talking natural without any chemical help).
So anyway, great subject! We women really do need to learn to be happy with our bodies the way they are, like it was said before, our bodies are MEANT to carry more body fat than men. We were not designed to be that lean. It's difficult though, I'd love to have more definition in my abs and legs but I have to try and talk myself into being satisfied with how I look now cause it's either that or fight with my body the rest of my life! And I certainly don't want that either.