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That would be ok. The other to are just gay. In no way do they say "i wants sex" its the easy way out. What I mean is they do not have to admit they need or want sex.
Importance of a wife Initiating Sex
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That would be ok. The other to are just gay. In no way do they say "i wants sex" its the easy way out. What I mean is they do not have to admit they need or want sex.
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um dude, im not saying these things as a way of playing games. if you were my husband, and you knew me, youd know that when i say these things it means i want to GO TO BED with you aka fuck.
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Yes angel says the same things. Like "when you coming to bed" she only asks that when she want sex. Its not the point. I know she wants sex she knows she wants sex. The damn point is why can't ya just say it. If a tell you I don't want hits a want you to just say it. Why can't you just say it?
Whats the reason? pride maybe?
I feel it's extremely important for the woman to initiate sex at least once in a while. I mean we all know men are generally hornier than women(not in all cases) but we still like to fell wanted and not that we are making you feel obligated to have sex when we want it. it makes us feel real good when our lady initiates it and can turn us on in a minute flat.
My last long term relationship had this problem. In the beginning she couldn't get enough. Fast forward a year or so, and she rarely if ever initiated it. You really love your man and wanna keep him happy? Do this once in a while.
My last long term relationship had this problem. In the beginning she couldn't get enough. Fast forward a year or so, and she rarely if ever initiated it. You really love your man and wanna keep him happy? Do this once in a while.
I'll try because I've really thought about this one but I don't know if it will make sense.
In one scenario she might be hinting for you to get ready to be jumpable (i.e., take a shower, brush your teeth, use mouthwash, etc.)
Secondly, we may not actually WANT sex in the classic, down and dirty state of "Being Horny." But we are trying to tell you "Could you get my motor started because I'm NOT horny but I want to be with you."
And yes, I know this sounds really weird.
If we WANT sex (i.e., are actively horny, which for some women only happens for about one week a month) the vast majority of women will generally be quite direct. We know where your dick is, we know how to grab it/suck it/jump on top of it. The problems start when we want to be affectionate and want that contact but are not actively horny. If we try to get things started when we're like that guys are NOT stupid and they misunderstand. They know our heart (or anything else) isn't into it, and then things get weird and fights can ensue.
This is really fucking hard to explain in writing.
Look, men, trust me, if your wife has key phrases or sounds or touches she uses to signal her willingness, just go with it. She's asking you to start her motor so she can jump your bones.
If this makes no sense I'm sorry ...
it makes perfect sense to me MM.
I'll tell ya why she can't say it.. if she does, her mom, her aunts, sisters, friends, society, tv, movies they all tell her she is a slut, a whore and have less value to society and to themselves as a person..
that's why she has a hard time saying it..
i think youre on to something, as absurd as it may seem. but i feel a woman has to be REALLY liberated sexually to be comfortable enough to communicate on this level "i wanna fuck" or something similar. its not impossible, but its not common
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