Help with girls, who better to ask? Please help!

[tempest2003]

alright well I know this isnt exactly this kind of fourm, but! I dont know who to really ask, this girl I like, well, she likes me too, and has told several people. Anyhow, track trip about 5 hours each way, i sat with her, and talked maybe for 2 hours total, thats pushingit, rest of the time was silent! same on the way home, but she was between my legs laying on my chest with her back on the ride home, killed my ass but wasnt about to move since she was comfortable, haha. I guess im not a good small talker kinda guy, ive never had a gf before, im 18, strong, athletic, good looking guy but always somehow get put on the "friends" list. shes a nice girl, not super talkative but likes to talk when theres somthing to talk about, i have known her for a few years but dont know a lot about her. She loves her sex, and im not saying that to be a perv but I know thats one important thing to her in a relationship, and he has to be good at it. She used to drink/smoke weed and such, but had quit recently, i think she quit because she knows im not into it all. But I just need some help on conversation starters! I just feal so dumb sitting there not thinking of anything to say, im just clueless! What kind of things do girls love to hear/talk about? Please give me some tips ladies, I would really appreciate it. Thanks!

 

[bunnymt]

Really, life is as easy or as hard as you make it. The only advice I want to give you is "be yourself."

 

[Outtlaw]

Well, Im a guy, but I figured Id try and help anyways. It really doesnt matter what you talk about. If the girl is into you she´ll sit there and listen to basically anything you have to say. Although, if you´re trying to make a move on this girl, it would probably help if the conversation was a little more intimate/inticeing (Damn, I cant spell for shit).

 

[flexygrl]

Hey,

First of all, you should post this on chat. More people will see it there. Get her to talk about herself. That should open the door to other conversations. People love to talk about themselves. Ask her questions like, do you like that song by "so and so"..., basically anything to get her to start talking. Good luck!

 

[Sinistar]

Really, life is as easy or as hard as you make it. The only advice I want to give you is "be yourself."

worst advice ever. tell me, how many womn do you get 'being yourself'? not many, if your not good looking or rich, or both. i could explain this further, but im in a hurry. it will never work. its a lie, one that will fuck you up.

as for the post: sounds like ts going along good. keep on keeping on.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Go to the bookstore and pick up "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. There is a ton of "conversation-starter" information in the book.

 

[flexygrl]

Hey Machine,

I was thinking the same exact thing!! I was going to post that but wasn't sure if that would insult him.

 

[jubei]

Stop being such a pussy and smoke a j. J/K bro, I continue to show interest. If you guys have good convo I would try something like coffee or dinner. If you find yourself struggeling for things to talk about go to a movie and then dinner. You don't have to say a word at the movie and then you will have something (the movie) to talk about when dinner comes around. She sounds like a keeper, good luck.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Hey Machine,

I was thinking the same exact thing!! I was going to post that but wasn't sure if that would insult him.

I don't see why it would ... the book has some pretty good info ...

 

[slobberknocker]

I didn't read your post because it was one enormous blob. When you have a lot to write, it is helpful to the reader to use:

A. Bullets and Numbering; and
B. Paragraphing